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Sorry girls
I didn't mean to come across negative in my response below. I guess I am just having a bad day. You gals have been a great support for me and thank you for being there.
Maybe it will happen one day. I have good days where I am perfectly fine and then other days it hits me (like today). I keep telling myself I am fine if we don't have kids and about 90% of the time I am fine with not having children and that 10% that I am not fine about it comes out sometimes (not as often lately though, so I feel like I am making progress).
Carmen--We don't have the money to adopt and G doesn't really want adopt. I thought about fostering, but I think my heart would get broken everytime I would have to hand a child back.
Kellie-Thank you sweetie for the kind words.
Again I apologize I didn't mean to come across negative.
Re: Sorry girls
DO NOT be sorry. I felt really bad that I was negative and I wanted to delete my reponse, but it was too late. I try to be postive and my negativeness came out today and I apologize.
It's ok to vent (I vented too with that post!), and we are all here to listen. Thats what friends are for
Our Blog!
"Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass. It's about learning to dance in the rain."
Now you know part of the reason I haven't been around lately. Because what is 10% for you is 90% for me right now. The holidays really bothered me, especially when we were witness to a baby announcement on Christmas Eve and the constant questions from DH's family as to why we don't have kids yet and what's wrong with us. I am really happy for all the girls who are PG, really I am, but I just can't keep reading about it. It hurts too much.
The other reason - the site has been blocked at work, which I take as a partial blessing for that 90% of the time.