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?? for moms and soon-to-be moms
I apologize if this has been asked before but...did you have/are you going to have the NT scan done? Why or why not? Our next appt is at 14 wks...which I think is too late for it anyway, right?
Again, sorry if this has been mentioned in the past but I guarantee I didn't even click on the post if it was. Not because I didn't care but because I could not have even told you what "NT" stood for 2 months ago.
Re: ?? for moms and soon-to-be moms
I'm a breastfeeding, baby wearing, cloth diapering, co-sleeping, anti-CIO Mommy
Raising Bean
Wives Unscripted
Married my hero on 10-11-08
Our bean was born on 05-19-11
we had it. i think 12-13 weeks is the only time frame it can be done (i could be wrong though).
not that it would have changed the outcome but we had it done because of james' brother's disability. it's so rare and even though it wasn't genetic, we would have liked to have been prepared for it rather than waiting until the delivery to find out.
ETA: i also think it varies by state. i know my sister didn't have it done in california. she wasn't even aware of it. i know in jersey it's pretty standard. every single person that i know here had one.
Zoey Emma 08.18.10
This. We did it at 11 weeks, I think it's from 11-14 weeks?
I literally just found out moments ago the full integrated scan is covered so we are doing it. If only the quad scan was covered I was not sure I would want to do it because of all the false positives, but since we have the NT covered as well we will.
I can't say it would change anything we would do but after thinking about this and talking it over with dh a lot we decided we want to do it, mostly because trisomy 18 can lead you down quite a horrific road.
We didn't do it. My OB practice only recommends it for people who have risk-factors (family history, age, etc.). We could have asked for it, but didn't. We had a blood test ~16 weeks, and they checked the nuchal fold at our anatomy scan at ~18.5 weeks.
I didn't have it done. We did the quad screening and were happy with that. My OB also didn't recommend that I have it done since I wasn't high risk.
Alexander David
11.25.09
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We did it to be prepared, to see the baby, etc, but I really wish we wouldn't have. They can only tell you your odds and it has caused me so much worry. I have my genetic counseling tomorrow and an amnio scheduled for Monday. I was told from the amnio that I would know for sure, but that doesn't sound like it is the case. I need to verify this tomorrow.
If the results of the test will alter your plans or if they wouldn't and you're comfortable/able to deal with abnormal results, then go for it.
From my experience, I wasn't prepared to hear poor results and the ultrasound to "see the baby" turned into a sad event. From that ultrasound I can only picture the "thick neck" there was nothing happy or exciting about it.
Sorry to be a downer.
DD: 6-24-11
EDD: 9-20-14
DD: 6-24-11
EDD: 9-20-14
The gyn told us that. Unless I misunderstood.
Maybe this is what they were referring to. I dunno. Now I'm confused.
the nt is just an u/s where they measure the fold in the neck by looking at the screen. no risk of miscarriage at all. although my nt also involved 2 blood tests. but still, no risk.
the amnio. yes.
Zoey Emma 08.18.10