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I have a confession about jenm

So, she and I used to talk on AIM, so she was suggested to me on FB. So one day, out of curiosity, I clicked on her profile and on her pictures. Most were hidden. But there were a couple that were public.

One was a picture of her in the hospital holding her son. I cried really hard because it was just so beautiful and tender. And I can still see it in my mind and even now it makes me tear up.

The end.

Re: I have a confession about jenm

  • That would make me cry. Hell, just thinking about it makes me cry.  I can't and don't want to even imagine the depth of that grief.
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  • That would make me cry.  I remember being devastated for her when it happened, and worrying about whether or not something like that would happen to me.
  • That would make me cry too.

    My  friend who lost her baby 9 days before her due date last June announced at Christmas that she is pregnant again. I think she's 20+ weeks along. We are all so happy for her.

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    The hair grows in thick where the horn used to be.
  • oh that's so great for your friend. I cannot imagine.
  • I would have cried too but also wondered why that picture was one of only a couple of public ones.
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  • imageFallinAgain:
    I would have cried too but also wondered why that picture was one of only a couple of public ones.

    I believe it was a picture by the photographer on that FB page that she was tagged in so she didn't have control of the setting.

  • And you just made me cry......

    I would be your friend wingy.....you could add me if you want :)

     

    Fallin I've got a few of them on his memorial page, and I recently locked down my pictures. I haven't in the past because I've started my own photography business and want to make sure people can see the pictures I take so I can generate some business. I just realized that you can lock certain albums and leave some open. In addition to that I share his picture because he's my boy and I love him. I refuse to hide him regardless of what happened because A) he's mykid and B) people have been hiding still birth for a long time now and had it not been hidden I might have been a bit more prepared for what happened to us.  

  • You are no longer suggested to me actually, which is weird. I think when FB changed how it worked it changed how it suggested people.
  • Oh well you can add me if you want.....no pressure ;) I'm still friends with.....I forget what her screen name was, but Shannon. We actually ran into each other at the mall once and she even came to Spencer's funeral. She's pretty fantastic! 

     

    jenm10 at hotmail.com 

  • "In addition to that I share his picture because he's my boy and I love him. I refuse to hide him regardless of what happened because A) he's mykid"

     This made me tear up. 

    IVF#1 May 2011 15 Eggs Retrieved, 11 Fertilized using ICSI + HPT on 6/9/11 Beta #1 420 Beta #2 2167 US 7/1 TWINS!! Due 2/18/2012 Brooke and Nora born at 35.6 weeks Jan 20th 2012
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