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Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Re: Are you "friends" with...
I am friends with an ex that was from when I was 14 and we are even friends and have tried to meet up from time to time (with our spouses too)
Then, any other contact with an ex is being friends on Facebook, no serious relationships were with these guys and DH totally knows about all of them and looks at their pages. We even have a friend in common that I dated.
I am wavering about one "ex" that I just saw was on Facebook. This recent one I found was more of a "friends with benefits" and I am more holding back because I am curious if he will try to befriend me but then I just think this is lame and I will stay far, far away from him because there is no reason to be in contact.
What do you all do? think?
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My high school ex and I are "friends," but at most, we wish each other a happy birthday. (I actually hid his posts because he's involved in CYD and posts ALL THE TIME!)
2 of my "friends with benefits" are friends. One I'm still really close to and his ever expanding family.
I am friends with my first love but I hid him a while ago. He posts constantly about his church and it was starting to annoy me.
I'm FB friends with only one of my exes. But we never actually communicate. He's married, I'm married, we dated like 15 years ago for a short period of time.I was friends with a "fling" (from high school) on Myspace -- but we only chatted a couple of times when we first reconnected, just to catch up. And then nothing ever again.
I've only ever found like one other ex on Myspace (not on FB, though I haven't searched for any of the others in a long, long time). But I had zero interest in befriending him. That was just a weird relationship for me -- I can't believe I dated the guy. He was so completely and extremely not my type, at all. He's not even someone I'd want to be associated with today.
Me neither. As far as I know, only one is on it and he's now married to someone I was friends with. I have considered it because we were friends before and after but the whole situation with how he first got together with his wife makes me uncomfortable with the idea. Things overlapped and then he wanted to get back together with me while with her. It was all a long time ago but I'm not FB friends with either of them. I am FB friends with my prom date, someone I have been friends with for so long but who I also found out held a torch for me for many years. I sometimes have thought about ending that friendship but we have been friends for so long and he's married now so I think we're past that coming up again.
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