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Thank you so much - LONG
You ladies are the best. I'm so thankful that I have a place I can come to when things get rough. Thursday and Friday were 2 crazy crazy days and when we got the news about J's job I freaked. Obvi with pretty good reasons. Like I said in the post I DD'd we were finally seeing the light at the end of the tunnel and the bad news about the job diminished that pretty quickly.
Since then things are looking up! I can't believe it but they are! I'm not going to go into all the details because they aren't public knowledge yet but J already has another job!!!!!!! ......................................
Working for my dad! hahaha!
Oh dear lord! What am I thinking agreeing to this?! Now I will be working with my dad, mom, husband, uncle and sometimes brother?! Oh geeze! He won't be starting for a while still because as you all know he is on disability. And then as we understand it he won't be let go for 90 days after he gets back to work but we know that he will be employed. Doing something he will enjoy for a company that will treat him like a person not an expendable number who noone cares about. He will be working in the shop so I won't be working directly with him so that is good! haha. But of course we will be driving to and from work together so I told him he is lucky he is so handsom because I would be pretty sick of his face. 
J and my dad are still working out all the details but it sounds like he will be given an amazing opportunity and I am so proud of him. I know that many people I work with are going to be upset and think he is getting this job because he is my husband but my dad knows J is a hard worker and wants what is best for the company as well as for us and the rest of my family.
The best part of all of this is the change. I'll explain... Friday J came up to work to talk to my dad about working there and then he went to the Hawks game with my brother that night so I didn't talk to him until Saturday night 'cause we spent they day at my P's house just hanging out. We sat down and discussed if this is something he should do and when I told him that as much as I don't want to be a lifer at my job I fully support him working there and the opportunity he will be given there. Then Sunday I went out with my mom and B and Jeff had some time to himself to think things through and that night we went to the hawks game. When we got home he looked at me and asked if I felt it too? I knew what he was talking about but I had to ask anyway, we both felt so much better after he made his decision. It was like a weight was lifted and that weight had been bearing down for way too long. We finally felt like us again. It had been way too long.
So there you have it my very long winded update. And seriously thank you all so much for being such wonderful friends. I love each and everyone of you.
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This!! I am so happy for you both!
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Started TTC 12/2008 | dx PCOS 5/2009
6 failed clomid/femara/TI cycles, 1 failed clomid/ovidrel/IUI cycle
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