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Am I peeing?
This may be a weird question and it's really embarrassing, but I just don't know. The other night my husband did oral sex on me and also used a vibrator. I felt like I was going to climax, and then it felt like I peed on him. I was really embarrassed b/c I've never done that before and I had a mess to clean up. Is this normal? Has anyone else had this happen? I have felt like I need to pee before when my husband is "stimulating" me (not usually during sex itself) but usually tell my husband to stop so I won't pee but this time I didn't feel it until it was too late. I was mortified but my husband thought it was funny - I'm glad he has a sense of humor. . .
Re: Am I peeing?
It might be orgasmic incontinence (http://www.google.com/search?sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8&q=orgasmic+incontinence), which is not terribly uncommon.
It could also be female ejaculation (http://www.google.com/search?sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8&q=female+ejaculation), which is rare.
Or it could be something else. I would see your doctor and discuss it, not only for your own peace of mind, but to eliminate any health concerns.
Sounds like you experienced female ejaculation. The fluid that is coming out of you is not pee. It sounds like the stimulation you were receiving was just the right combo and BOOM!! you just hit the big ol' jackpot of orgasms.
A small percentage of women can do this. There is nothing to be embarrassed about. Just put a towel under you and tell your partner that he is such a stud, he made you squirt!!
I have this happen to me. It started happening a couple of years ago and now I love it! However, at first I had the same reaction you did and whenever I dated someone I had to pre-warn them. DH loves it! However, we know to put down a towel (or two) under me. Since this has started to happen it has been the best orgasms I have ever had, despite the fact that I make a mess.
We bought a waterproof matress pad which has helped a lot too. Sometimes there is a lot, sometimes a little. It depends on the intensity.
Don't panic about it. Enjoy it and clean up afterward!
Well if you felt like a climax while the fluid was releasing then it was female ejaculation ...you can find it in porn...I had it happen to me and my husband told me hold on and grabbed his laptop and showed me that it was more common than I realized...
But if you really just feel like your going to pee and not have an orgasm as well then maybe you should see your ob/gyn