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Warning: Personal questions (do not enter if you are easily offended)
So, this is what I am wondering:
1) If you watch porn on occasion, what kind is your preference?
2) What are your fave and easiest to use sex toys? (solo or with s/o)
Nov. 19, 2010 BFP #1--m/c Dec. 24th, 2010
First cycle after m/c on Feb. 2, 2011--March 8th, 2011 BFP #2 EDD Nov. 19, 2011.
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Re: Warning: Personal questions (do not enter if you are easily offended)
1. Regular porn tends to make me uncomfortable, so DH and I will watch instructional type videos together. I think they're from the sinclair institute. It's still technically porn, but they're married couples and I feel more comfortable this way. We've even bought some of the products we've seen used in the videos (hello Liberator ramp and wedge!)
2. We have a bag of goodies. Vibrating rings and toys for me.
I think I'm a bit of a prude and that's why I'm uptight about using toys/videos UNLESS I'm drinking with DH. This really helps break down the walls for me, but obviously isn't a healthy habit lol. We know when we have a 'dirty night' with a bottle of rum, it's gonna be hot.
1.) I like Gonzo porn which only shows the sex scenes because sometimes the story lines are just so crazy and ridiculous that it makes me laugh more than turn me on. Oh and if I can find porn with guys that have scottish or irish guys the accents drive me nuts, LOL
2.) Clit massager, vibrator, and rings.
1.) DH and I have only watched porn together once or twice, usually as a foreplay/ special treat for him. Most of the time we watch it on our own. Most of the porn I watch is girl on girl, but some of this stuff is really ridiculous so it's hard to find something to watch that I don't end up getting disgusted by or laughing at. Like the spitting, who decided this was hot?!
2.) We have toys and I use them alone and with DH. c-rings, vibes, bullets and such. I really want one of those WE Vibes though
1) Yes we watch porn. I prefer the softcore with a romantic story line guy/girl only, hubby likes hardcore, straight to the point.
2) I have a vibrator that we play with sometimes, and we sometimes use KY warming sensation.
1. We will watch it together on occasion and it is usually straight to the point and usually I am making fun at something going on in the video for it to really do any good
2. I have an Eager Beaver that I haven't used solo forever but we will get out every now and again and use for foreplay or to get me to O again when we are done... we use rings and lubes more often and on a more regular basis.
1. We have a couple dvds, and we just pick whenever we want to watch one.
2. We have a plain vibrator that we haven't used since our wedding night lol
1) The Man and I watch porn together occasionally, and we both look at it separately as well. He likes amateur and anal, I like BDSM.
2) I really like just a little bullet vibe when we're having sex, because it's so small that it doesn't get in the way. I also have a Rabbit that's pretty great, and we found a waterproof vibrating dildo that gets some use in the shower.
I used to be a more openly sexual person and then one bad experience (before DH) turned me back into the prude I was in HS. After talking to a friend, I realized I was being silly. Married people have sex. Sometimes I think it is harder being female because guys are expected to be sex-fiends. Girls that are sexual are looked at as sluts. The stigmas can suck.
1. Hardcore porn makes me uncomfortable; I prefer more softcore stuff.
2. BIG fans of the Liberator ramp, as well as a mahogany paddle and a silver vibrator. We also have four lengths of silky rope (bought from Home Depot) which we use to tie each other down.