August 2009 Weddings
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QOTD

Do you talk about your sex life with your friends? Did you before you got married?
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  • Absolutely. We exchange sexcapades and new things to try. My friends that I have these discussions with are mainly the people I've known since high school or college. We have no boundaries.
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  • Very infrequently, and never in detail.  I know that DH is uncomfortable with me sharing too much about our intimate lives with friends and I try to respect that.
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  • Yes.  Like MO said, we share stories and what not, give each other tips on new things.  We love it.  Especially on a girls night when we have all had a few drinks in us.

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  • With my friends?  No.

    With Derek's friends?  Well, he likes to joke a lot.  So, other than calling himself the "3 thrust wonder", nothing serious.

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  • Nope, never.
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    Very infrequently, and never in detail.  I know that DH is uncomfortable with me sharing too much about our intimate lives with friends and I try to respect that.

    Ditto this. 

  • Raynes* HA!

    We talk about all sortsa stuff. If you can't blab with your friends, who can you blab with? It gets worse the more we drink. 

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  • Certain friends, definitely. Other friends, not so much. I probably did more back in college when my friends and I lived together. Since then many of those friends have moved away and some of my new local friends are pretty shy about those sort of conversations. However I definitely still have some friends who I'll talk sex with.
  • Um, I am probably WAY too open about sex with my friends. in fact, I'm probably way too open with everyone. I mean, I don't call my friends every time we have sex and run down the nitty gritty details, but if we're talking about "oh I hate when THIS happens (insert embarrassing and/or graphic sexual action)," I'll chime in and give more detail than most. I'm pretty much an open book when it comes to that kind of stuff.
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  • Not much before I got married, being as I didn't have one to speak of.  I do occasionally with my BFF now.
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  • I'm really open about everything with my closest friends, but sometimes it takes me a drink or 2 to really get into detail.

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  • We don't. We used to talk about our sex lives all the time, but it seems like anytime one of us is in a serious relationship, or married, we stop talking about it. Our single friends still talk about their sex lives and partners, but the two of us that are married and engaged don't. It's different for me to talk about the guy I'm dating versus my husband who my friends know and see all the time.
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  • If the subject comes up, we talk about it.  Interestingly, my friends seem to think I'm wild and insatiable.  Probably has something to do with my friends wedding this summer.  We ducked out of the reception for a while and went back to the B&B since we knew no one would be there (all the guests and even the hosts we at the wedding and it was a 2 minute walk).  When we got back, everyone gave us a standing ovation.  I was so embarassed!  I kept telling them it was to get batteries for my camera (I was pretty drunk and thought people would believe me)  Embarrassed
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  • Nope, I very rarely do. I don't think Eddie would like it if I would share stuff like that with my friends.
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