December 2010 Weddings
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Anything H doesn't support you in?
H has let it be known that he thinks the fascinators I make are "ridiculous", and completely un-useful. It kind of irks me because I'm having so much fun making them. I let him know that, and he said he won't say anything again, but not to expect me to get an unbiased opinion out of him =( Anything you do that your H doesn't exactly support you in?
December 2010 siggy challenge - Caketopper:
Re: Anything H doesn't support you in?
I model on the side and H at first used to brag to everyone about it till a few months later, then he made his opinions clear that he didnt like me doing it even though ive been modeling since before we started dateing (which i had to remind him MANY times). I took his best female friend with me to a shoot and hes chilled out about it since. He even started showing off some of the photos.
Dont quit doing what you enjoy because he isnt much of a fan, he will eventually come around when he sees how much you like it, he may eventually start supporting it more.
Not caring about missing RSVPs because there aren't any rocks!
I definitely am a little ticked, especially because I support him in everything he does, and I've tried to let him know that.
I think if I start actually selling them and making some money off of them, then he might come around, but in the meantime, I am definitely having a blast making them. Maybe I just need to reiterate to him how much it allows my creativity to flow, and how much it calms me down as well.
I guess there's a lot of things I need to kind of lead H to knowing (because you can't really teach him, that much I've learned!), because he didn't really have a good home life growing up, and before me, he never really had to work at a relationship. The girls did everything.
H was super excited about my blog, and is really proud of it, but he gets frustrated with the amount of time I'm on the computer with it.
I guess we just have to balance these things in our lives and make sure that our H's don't feel like ALL our energy is going into our hobbies - I think that's where the problem was for my H anyway.
Where we met - Mount Isa
a small mining town in the Australian Outback. Neither of us are from there but we both moved there in the second last year of highschool. He was moved next to me in maths class to stop him talking. It didn't work.