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Blast from the Past - hi from Cara (ballandchain10)
Hi ladies,
I hope everyone is doing well! So many babies here and on the way (I keep up with your news feeds on Facebook!)
I haven't been here for a long time, but we shared a lot on these boards during 2009-2010, and I wanted to let you know that I filed for divorce in November 2010.
I can't go into the reasons for my decision because this is a public forum, but believe me, I had my reasons. Someday I will talk about it when lawyers aren't involved.
Things here are getting better...I've been on the job search and am going on a 3rd round interview this week (so please send good vibes!) Been going out with the girls, enjoying getting to know myself again and taking things as they unfold. I started writing a blog (tales about my newly-single life...link below) for a graduate course, (getting back into it after a month hiatus) While I'm not sunshine & rainbows happy, I feel a calm and peace that I have not felt in a long time.
Definitely not ready for dating yet...I can't even imagine the thought.
I also have lost over 20 pounds by taking care of myself and exercising. Kickboxing helps in more ways then just exercise LOL. I'm down to the last 8 pounds, and then I'll be back to my college-skinny weight!
I thought of you all because March is almost here (it is crazy how fast time flies)...I am happy to say that I'm having a non-iversary party with my girlfriends. I'm determined to celebrate my choice rather than sulk alone.
That being said, I just wanted to say hello and that I'm thrilled to hear so much good news from you all that is being shared on the boards and on Facebook.
all the best,
Cara
Re: Blast from the Past - hi from Cara (ballandchain10)
Hey girl, so glad to hear from you!
It is so good to hear that you are at peace with your decision, and I wish you much happiness in the future!
We miss you around here, so come and visit more often!
GO! St. Louis Half Marathon-2:32:13
Omaha Half Marathon 9.23.12
Hi Cara! I'm sorry to hear about your situation but I'm glad to hear that you feel a calm and peace that you have not felt in a long time, as that is what is most important.
I know you have a strong support system but if you ever need to talk to someone outside your group, you still have my email address. I look forward to hopefully seeing you around more and hearing about all the great things you're doing with your life!
BFP #1 2/28/12- 3/3/12 CP at 4w3d
BFP #2 4/1/12- 5/7/12 Missed M/C at 8w4d (measuring 6w3d)
TTC on hold until December
Hey Cara,
So sorry to hear about your situation, but it sound like things are looking up from here. I hope everything turns out in the end.
I hope to see you hanging around here more again!
Sorry you're in that situation, but I am glad you're at peace with the decision! Miss you on the boards, though; please stop by more often!
Thank you so much for your support...it really does mean a lot.
I'm not quite ready (and I don't think I will be) visiting the "Starting Over" board. It just sounds really, really sad and angry over there. I have been a fan of the Huffington Post's "Divorce" section though (yes, they actually have a whole section for that)
I did start a blog...it has been fantastic therapy for me...so if you want to check out what I've been up to it's http://nonjersey.wordpress.com
(I'd love it if you e-mail subscribe or join the RSS feed!)
Welcome back! It's great to see you! I'm glad that you are doing what is best for you and that you are moving forward in a positive way. I hope that you still come play though because we miss you!
Your blog is super cute btw!
GO! St. Louis Half Marathon-2:32:13
Omaha Half Marathon 9.23.12
Sharryn
thank you so much for the compliment! it means a lot.
actually, getting published is on my "bucket list". There's a lot I want to talk about but for obvious reasons, I can't do it right now. I will someday though.
my life has been very "runs with scissors" for the last 10 years, and it took one huge implosion for it to settle down. that period is what I want to focus on for my blog/book.
thanks again and I hope you enjoy following it!