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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
s/o once a cheater... anon. poll
I'm curious, since several of you said you wouldn't be with someone who had cheated in the past. Have any of you girls ever cheated in a past relationship? (I won't ask about current lol). I already admitted that I had in the the OP, but we'll make this an anonymous poll to protect the guilty. Unless I'm the only guilty one... FWIW, I mean this as a judgement free zone. I know why it happened in my case, and why it won't happen again, and it's not my place to judge anyone else, as I hope you won't judge me.
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Re: s/o once a cheater... anon. poll
Am I the only one surprised at the results of this poll compared to how many people said they would not date someone who had cheated on a past partner?
Kinda hypocritical....
No, I'm surprised too.
QFT
I know I would never start a relationship letting on that I was the other woman once. Everyone is entitled to their own time of bad choices, but that doesn't mean they'll make bad choices for the rest of their life.
Or else I would be in trouble! lol
That's pretty much how I feel. I also don't think that just because someone has behaved in the past means they're anymore worthy of trust in the future. Maybe the person who cheated in a past relationship is more worthy of trust because they regret it too much to ever make that decision again whereas a person who's never chated hasn't learned that lesson yet.
FWIW, I've never cheated other than a very drunken small kiss in college...I just think it's a very grey area.
Technically I was still with someone when I went on my first date with DH (DH knew). It was a long term, off and on relationship that was drifting quickly towards off yet again. I didn't see DH again for 3 months due to distance, and during that time the relationship completely tanked on its own. I feel like I gave it my due diligence and there was nothing I could do to save it when I had tried to do so repeatedly, so I don't feel guilty.
Of course, even more technically, we never actually broke up in an official manner. So I guess you could say I'm still cheating on him. LOL
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