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Strong desire to try something new.
DH and I have been married for 5 1/2 years and have definitely had our up and downs in our sex life. I delivered our 2 second in June '10 and since I was released for sex, it has been awesome. We have this strong passion that was always lacking before. I have great desire for sex and we do it 3-4 times a week or more. At the beginning of the year, DH and I took a trip for 5 days just the two of us. On that trip we experimented with anal fingering and then he has a desire to buy me a vibrator. So when we returned he did and so far it's added more spice but now I think I want to anal sex. I know that some like it and some don't but what are your experiences with it and should I just tell him I want to try it?
Re: Strong desire to try something new.
http://aagblog.com/2007/07/18/part-one-how-to-have-buttsexmore-than-once/
This post from one of my favorite blogs sums it up quite nicely, but if you've pretty much moved through the steps on this page, at the bottom of the post there is a link to "Part II" where she expands on how to include your partner (here's the link if you want to jump right there: http://aagblog.com/2007/07/19/part-two-how-to-have-buttsexmore-than-once/)
And as for me, personally, i really enjoy it, in fact i can have an orgasm through anal sex alone (although i hear/have read that it's quite uncommon for women to experience that; but you don't know till you try, right?).
Hope that's are helpful!
Chandler Bing
"Everyone makes mistakes. Hell, history's full of 'em. Betamax... Waterworld... your brother who's 16 years younger than you... And there's really no shame in making mistakes. Just as long as nobody knows about them."
Greg the Bunny
it was not sexy at all, it felt like i was POOPING during sex. imagine how great it feels to be having sex and then the feeling of pooping sweeping over you. anal sex, no thanks!
but maybe you wont feel that way. just saying.
I have tried this many times. Some have been painful, some sweet and some erotic. What I can suggest so far is this. . . B**t plug. They will get you more willing to do. Also, there is a book that I can recommend called "A woman's guide to A*** sex." By Tristan ________. (can not remember the last name but Tristan is in there somewhere.) Hopefully, this helps!
You may not enjoy it your first time, as it's kind of an acquired taste. I really enjoy it, but it took some getting used to.
Lube. Lots of it. And maybe some wine for the first time
Just reach back there and put your finger in during doggy. Tell it feels good. Tell him you want him to put his finger there and so on...
Us guys are visual learners. Don't give us a dissertation, just do it.
Agreed. It took me a long time to try it, but I absolutely love it. My dh and I do it probably once a week, and it never fails to get me off!
I think the communication aspect is as important as the lube. I also find that being on top can make it easier for me to control how deep it goes, and gives both of us access to the front door iykwim!