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recommend your sex toy
I bought my first sex toy ever last year and the sex has been amazing with it! We bought a simple vibrating bullet. I am ready to adventure with another toy now. Any suggestions for sex toy #2?
We have been married for 7 years and we are going on a kids-free trip this weekend and I wanted to surprise DH. 
TIA!
Re: recommend your sex toy
We tried a ring once and it weired me out! Maybe it was because it was our first toy (and honestly we have yet to buy another), but the C vibrating kept distracting me.
Have fun shopping though? On a separate questions, as a non-vibrator owner, how did you pick out your first one? It seems they range from chapstick size to banana!
I think you should invest in a Lelo. Since you know you like vibrations , investing in a Lelo is a great option. They're rechargeable, they have great warranties. And if your concerned at all with your kids finding them or anyone else say, when you travel. They look like pieces of art work. I recommend the GIGI. You can use it clitorally or vaginally. It comes in fun colors as well.
www.lelo.com
Hope this helps !!!!
OK, I'm not trying to pimp myself out so I'm not going to give any links, but I know a thing or two about this stuff. I've been doing Passion Parties for 7 years now and have EXTENSIVE exposure to toys. I can go on for hours in detail but will try to keep this brief.
If you love the bullet, check out a C-ring with a bullet attached to it. Imagine a circle with a bullet sticking off the side of it. Frequently you can remove the bullet from the sleeve and use it alone too. These are great because it essentially makes the bullet a hands-free toy. Put the ring on him, you get on him, all is well in the world. Corded ones run off of normal batteries and cordless ones are usually watch batteries which will run out quickly.
My #1 fave right now is called the We-Vibe II. You can find it all over. Make sure to get version 2. It looks like a C, and both ends of the C vibrate. It's cordless and rechargeable and water proof. You actually wear it during the act and it is surprisingly comfortable. It's more expensive ($130) but WELL worth it. It has a website that explains all about it (I don't want to get banned so I'm keeping this PG).
Feel free to PM me with questions or for explanations of ones you find online. I've heard about every question out there already!
But why wouldn't you serve ice cream with the cake?
i'm also a sex toy guru and have a toy closet instead of a toy chest. lol. there are a lot of fun options out there. the previous posters have discussed two of my favorites.
i like glass dildos. they're very sanitary, as they can be boiled, beautiful, and they retain heat and cold temperatures well. temperature is a fun element most folks don't work into sex. too bad for them. wink.
if you don't require a lot of stimulation, there are vibrators out there that look like a tampon. they go inside, and your partner gets a remote control that works up to about a 1/2 mile. at any point, he can turn on or off the vibrations. it makes eating dinner out or a movie quite interesting. that said, the vibration power isn't that high.
there are a lot of others i could rec. let me know what you'd specifically like to know.
robin
@katiscarlet: i write a sex blog that's read in 20 countries. let me know if you'd like to post as a guest upon my site.
best,
robin
Hate to say this but I have become a bit of a toy snob. I will not go for the lower class of vibes because they will die out on you. . . fast!
Recommendations for you and YH:
- We Vibe II- I hear nothing but great things about it. I intend on getting this as the next toy of choice for MH and I.
- Lelo Nea- I posted about this in a prior post on here. It is a little egg-shaped vibe with a pretty design but it is contoured on one side. . .just for YH "mash". Go ahead and stimulate his "two veg" while making love to send him up the wall.
- *** ring- only if you want to sustain him a little longer. they are stretchy and not a lot of dough. Make sure they go around the "meat and two veg" and no longer than 15 minutes! You do not want to castrate him. (j/k- but I am serious about the 15 min.
Hope these few suggestions work. Have fun on your weekend!Redlace: What is your blog? I'd love to read it, but don't see the info in your bio at all...