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Please be outraged for me

I am feeling dramatic this morning. So yesterday afternoon my dad spiked a fever of 103. My mom called an ambulance and they took him to the hospital in the early evening. He's been admitted with a UTI and is on IV antibiotics. This is not the interesting or ragey part of my story.

How did I find out this information? Well this morning, via email of course. I was the last person added to a mass email from my mother that began "As most of you know, Bill spiked a temp . . ."

I most certainly did not know.

Really, neither she nor one of my brothers could fraking call me? 

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Re: Please be outraged for me

  • Consider your rage validated. How hard is it to make an effing phone call?
  • I would be outraged!

    This has been happening lately in our family.  My brother, sister, and I keep finding out crazy stuff about other family members via email well after the event.  It seriously sucks.  I feel you on this one.

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  • I'd be pretty pissed. Maybe you should get yourself a nice can of creamed corn to try to curb the rage.

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  • WTF?  You've got my validation to be completely outraged by this.  How hard would it be for your mom to call you?! 

    I hope your dad is okay and gets out of the hospital soon.

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  • I am outraged on your behalf. My family does this to me also. Maybe because I don't live near them and don't see them often, I don't know. But I shouldn't find out my grandfather is in the hospital with pneumonia from FB. Or that my grandma had cancer AFTER it was in remission.

    I feel ya.

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    I'd be pretty pissed. Maybe you should get yourself a nice can of creamed corn to try to curb the rage.

    Not without a drug test first. 

  • Validated. I found out my Grandma died ON FACEBOOK. Granted, I'd been there the day before. I knew it was coming. But just remembering that moment fills me with RAAAGE.
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  • I'd be able to let it go as bad behavior because her husband is really sick except she obviously called other people and she added me to the email chain last.

    I am walking around my house growling and shouting "We Bears" to which Mr. Mod responded "We ANGRY Bears! huh. like Angry Birds. Wouldn't that be a great iPhone app?" (insight into my marriage right there people. right there)

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  • Mr. Mod cracks me up.

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  • I feel you Sisterfriend.  A couple pieces of news I learned via email: when my uncle died and when my dad's biopsy came back benign.  It would have been helpful to know that my uncle was in the hospital or that my dad was having a test done.

    the tech age certainly has it's downsides.  huge pro that I don't have to actually call people when I don't want to though.

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  • Bears indeed. Indeedy.
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  • Validated.  I would be unbelievably pissed.


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  • Validated. but in a way not shocking unfortunately as it seems communication is not the strong point in people in your family.
  • Yeah, this is the downside of the internet and texting age.

    I love Mr. Mod.

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  • I'm livid for you.  This shiit is all too familiar in my family.  I'm lucky if I hear about it at all since my parents don't even email.  And I live in the same town as my parents! 

    You deserve to be wicked pissed, Mod.  Especially since you go above and beyond to try to take care of your family.

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  • Your family is the worst, Mod.
    I hope your dad is ok!
  • Validated!

    My mother had emergency surgery while I was on my honeymoon, and even though we phoned several times, my parents didn't tell me until we returned.

    My old boyfriend's father nearly died of an aneurysm while we were on a cruise, and also refused to mention it when he called home during the trip.

  • Validation granted!  That is completely ridiculous.

    I found out about my mom going to the ER five times for panic attacks/racing heart (she has a heart condition) only when I had to take her for the sixth.  No, no reason at all to let your kids know the first time, when they thought it could have been a fukking heart attack.


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  • Validated.

    Pre-FB I called to chat with my mom and found out she'd been in the hospital for two days and was having heart surgery that afternoon. Sis: "Didn't someone call you?" 

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    "The meek shall inherit the earth" isn't about children. It's about deer. We're all going to get messed the fuckup by a bunch of cloned super-deer.- samfish2bcrab

    Sometimes I wonder if scientists have never seen a sci-fi movie before. "Oh yes, let's create a super species of deer. NOTHING COULD POSSIBLY GO WRONG." I wonder if State Farm offers a Zombie Deer Attack policy. -CaliopeSpidrman
  • My mom does this but I don't even get the courtesy of an email. I find out weeks later when someone else asks about her health or mentions it in passing.

     But she's always done this. When I was about 11 my dad's mom died while I had a friend over for a sleepover, she comes into the room and says "I'm sorry, Patty. You're going to have to go home, irish's grandma passed away."

    I'm pretty sure it's pronounced your mom's a moron and if you didn't have your name legally changed by the age of 22, so are you. Unless you're from another continent. -Groomz
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