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Frustrated and Confused...TMI...but deal with it...

Okay, this one is going to be overly TMI, but I can't stand talking to my sisters about this anymore, because they just dont' understand. That is why God brought me you people. : )

Anywho, okay, as I grumpily stated on Tuesday, I started to have light cramps on Tuesday. Well, I was due to have my period on Tuesday, and usually I start spotting a few days before, so I thought it was odd this weekend that I hadn't yet. So, I waited, and nothing...just more light cramping. Then yesterday, the same thing. So this morning, I took a test and BFN. I am ever only early on my period, never ever late. I feel like it could start any moment, cramping/bloated feeling, but I mean NADA. I just want it to either come or not (preferably not). This crap of not knowing is the hardest.

What is odd, is that both my sisters got pregnant at a time when they were past O, and Jeff and I did the deed about a week ago, which was about a week past my O, so maybe for some twacked out reason that did the trick...but I doubt it. I just don't get why I have to be late on top of all this other crap just to get my hopes up. If it hasn't came by tomorrow, I may call my OB and see what she wants me to do, because I am one of her "special" cases, as being from smaller communities she has a lot less people with fertility problems.

*~~Danie~~*
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Re: Frustrated and Confused...TMI...but deal with it...

  • Is is possible you have maybe tested too soon? When my period was late and I had cramps etc. I was convinced I was pregnant, I took one when I was 4 days late and was a BFN. Then I felt off yesterday so I took another one and it was a BFP and at that point I was around 2 weeks late.

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  • See, it is stories like yours that are drving me insane! Haha! Because I keep getting my hopes up...and I am the kind of person that I more expect the worst, that way if the good comes great, but if not, you are ready for it...although I hate when other people think that way. I am hoping that this is the case. It is just really odd for me to not be started or spotting atleast by now. I have even put in "emergency" tampons before I go to work in case I get it yesterday morning and todays, and there is zilch on there. (Again, TMI, but we are all women). Maybe Jeff's middle of the night romp did the trick, and I am just implanting now. We will see. Hmph.
    *~~Danie~~*
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  • It is possible Smile Keep us posted!
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  • Big, fat implanting vibes heading your way!!! Stick embryo, stick!!!

    I know this is terribly frustrating for you but your time will come. Left HugRight Hug

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  • Frustrating, yes, but you made me laugh very loud! : ) Oh, the things we talk about when TTC. Poor Jeff knows WAY more about me than he EVER wanted to!

    *~~Danie~~*
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  • I have no useful advice for you, but I just wanted to say that I understand why you are frustrated!!  Because when you are incredibly frustrated, sometimes that's all you want to hear from someone else, right?  Hugs!
  • Maybe it's spotting from implantation?  Don't get your hopes up yet!  I would test in a couple days again if AF doesn't show!

    Keeping my fingers crossed that this is it for you!

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  • My sister took three count em THREE negative pregnancy tests when she finally went to the OB and found out she was PG with her first.

     

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  • I know very little about this topic but I'm sending lots of sticky implant vibes too hoping you test again and get a BFP!! ::hugs:::
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  • I know it's frustrating not to know!  I hope you're able to get your mind off of it for a couple days and then test again!  Good luck! I hope to see a very happy post from you in the near future!
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  • **Biting my nails**  Sending you lots of implanting vibes!  In the meantime, my best advice is to try to take your mind off of it and let your body do its thing - movie night or game night?  What things distract you the most?  I'd probably do a puzzle :P
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  • To add on to the confusion...I pee about every two hours. I haven't been drinking any more water, and I usually pee like every 5 hours...I have done a 10 hour Texas trip without peeing once! WTF?
    *~~Danie~~*
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  • How long have you been off BC? I've been off it for 10 months, and I still find that my cycles are wonky. Last month I was 2 days late, this month a day early. Good luck though! I always hear stories about people who don't get BFPs until they're days late.
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  • Uh...for about 5 years now? Haha! We seriously used pull-&-pray for FIVE years, and never got pregnant, so I knew it was going to be a problem getting pregnant. Mine is usually only early, never late. But, I am just trying REALLY hard not to get my hopes up. And, this might sound really bad, but I kind of wanted to know before the weekend, because we are going to dinner with friends, and then to another's birthday party afterward, and if I don't drink...people will definately notice and assume, but I don't want to at all if I think I may be PG. Eeks.
    *~~Danie~~*
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  • Danie, I totally feel your frustrations.  I was late this month too, but not PG.  Hopefully you will get some good news soon.
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  • Well, I called my OB's nurse...cause she knows I'm crazy and wouldn't expect any less, on what I should "do". She told me to test Tuesday morning if I haven't got it, and either way, let her know. Hmph. Please no AF...pleaes no AF...please no AF!!
    *~~Danie~~*
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  • I bet not knowing is the worst!! I'll be crossing my fingers for you, hopefully you tested to early and AF wont come!!
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