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how to make him last longer?
A bit of history first... DH and I dated for 7 years. During this time we used condoms and I was on the pill for double BC. Sex was great, I almost always got my O, there were rarely times when he finished too quick, and sometimes he lasted too long for me.
We've been married for 10 months. Once we got married we ditched the condoms because, everyone knows, it's so much better 
For a while everything was still great but recently he has been finishing too quick for me to even get close to my O, even with lots of foreplay. I'm thinking that part of the problem is that we are not having as much sex as we used to because he has been working really long hours and is exhausted when he gets home. So I guess when we do have sex he is really excited!
Any ideas on how to make him last longer?... other than condoms?
Thanks
Re: how to make him last longer?
Does he help you finish if he pops early?
If you aren't having sex as often as you used to, I would assume he picks up the slack with masturbation. The frequency of sex shouldn't matter.
Do you think maybe he just isn't trying as hard to last now that you are married? He needs to practice edging, either with you or alone. A cockring might help too.
Have you asked him why this is happening? I think if he can't fix the problem, you should go back to the condoms until he can control himself. He CAN help it; don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
I saw this article and I thought i would post it for you. It give several positions to help guys last longer. Apparently its all about blood flow, who knew?
http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/3-sex-positions-to-help-you-last-longer-in-bed/
Hope it helps!