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My Monthly Treat to Myself

The hospital that I delivered at holds a breastfeeding support group twice a week. It is on the maternity floor and I LOVE LOVE LOVE going up there because my experience was so wonderful and I like to see the nurses and show off my babe. And I think the LC that leads the group is great (I remember so vividly her bringing Abe down to recovery to show us how to nurse). The best group is on Wednesday afternoons because it is very calm and relaxed. The evening group is packed and wild.

So. I've decided that the first Wednesday of every month I'm going to take the afternoon off, get Abe from school and go to the group. Then go home and play.

I'm really excited!

Re: My Monthly Treat to Myself

  • I think it's awesome that your hospital holds these support groups! I remember how frustrated my sister was with her first child-- my niece didn't start breastfeeding well until my sister had tried everything and given up (of course). A support group would have been so helpful!

    And then you get to play with Abe early, too, so double-bonus!  Smile

    "Once the realization is accepted that even between the closest human beings infinite distances continue, a wonderful living side by side can grow, if they succeed in loving the distance between them which makes it possible for each to see the other whole against the sky." -- Ranier Maria Rilke BabyFruit Ticker image Me:37 MH:38 TTC since Oct 2011 BFP/Beta#1: 13 6/20/12; Beta#2: 20 6/22/12; MC/Beta#3: 9 6/27/12 BFP#2/Beta#1: 9/21/12 S/PAIFW
  • I think that is a fabulous plan with lots of benefits!
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  • I've found that I can actually offer advice and help people in some situations! And that makes me feel really really really good. OH. And they weigh Abe and I like to see how much weight he gains...my healthy boy.

  • Sounds like a fabulous treat, and I'm extra quality time for you and Abe to boot! I noticed that MidCoast hosts a similar program with their LCs, and I definitely want to take advantage of it while we're still up in Maine. Hope you have a great time!

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  • I can TOTALLY see you being very helpful in a very encouraging way-- you're good like that!

    So how IS Abe weighing in these days?

    "Once the realization is accepted that even between the closest human beings infinite distances continue, a wonderful living side by side can grow, if they succeed in loving the distance between them which makes it possible for each to see the other whole against the sky." -- Ranier Maria Rilke BabyFruit Ticker image Me:37 MH:38 TTC since Oct 2011 BFP/Beta#1: 13 6/20/12; Beta#2: 20 6/22/12; MC/Beta#3: 9 6/27/12 BFP#2/Beta#1: 9/21/12 S/PAIFW
  • I cannot speak to the support groups but I big puffy heart that maternity floor. I hope it doesn't change with the facility.
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    So how IS Abe weighing in these days?

    When I went to the group last week he was 14lbs 3oz. So. I suspect he weighs about 14lbs 10oz or so...maybe even over 15lbs because he has been eating NONSTOP. We went to Portland last weekend and he ate every hour and a half. Normally on a outing like that he sleeps the whole time.

  • That's an awesome plan! I really enjoyed the support group from MMC. It wasn't at the hospital but I did get to go back to MMC for a few one on one sessions and to just stop in and visit Skye. Was fun, we actually ran into a nurse that cared for Caroline in the NICU. I didn't get to meet any of her NICU nurses so that was neat.

    Abe is a growing boy, huh?! Pretty soon he's going to pass Caroline and Abby the peanut by :)

  • Awesome plan!
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  • I think that is awesome. Great time for you and your babe all alone. I love it.
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  • Yay!  Much needed momma and baby time!   I liked going to the support groups for it mostly depended on which LC was running it.  
  • Aww that's so sweet to do that w/ Abe  :o).  I also went to my hospital's bfing support group and loved it.  I think back to it and have such nice memories of snuggling w/ Jake the whole time while I got to talk to other moms and the LC - it was just so comfortable.  Have fun!!
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    I've found that I can actually offer advice and help people in some situations! And that makes me feel really really really good. OH. And they weigh Abe and I like to see how much weight he gains...my healthy boy.

    I felt exactly the same way.  By the end I felt like I could be an LC because I had learned so much and felt like I had the ability to encourage other moms.  I always let friends know they can talk with me if they want to discuss frustrations because I remember how helpful that was to me.  I loved the LC's at the hospital too.  I don't think I would have made it without them.  I loved seeing Ben gain weight too.  A well deserved treat indeed :)
  • All my breast-feeding mommies love the support group.  And I hear the same thing about the LC.  I heart the LCs that come to our office for our newborn check ups. And it so great to see the pleasure our moms get out of knowing how well their kiddos are gaining.  I am so glad that you are having an awesome experience. 
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  • Dang, Brianne-- by the time I finally get to meet Abe in person, he'll no longer be a little baby!

    Way to go, Mom!

    "Once the realization is accepted that even between the closest human beings infinite distances continue, a wonderful living side by side can grow, if they succeed in loving the distance between them which makes it possible for each to see the other whole against the sky." -- Ranier Maria Rilke BabyFruit Ticker image Me:37 MH:38 TTC since Oct 2011 BFP/Beta#1: 13 6/20/12; Beta#2: 20 6/22/12; MC/Beta#3: 9 6/27/12 BFP#2/Beta#1: 9/21/12 S/PAIFW
  • i love the fact you are taking time for yourself and Abe!  That's awesome!
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  • This sounds like a wonderful plan for both you and Abe. I am thinking I will take advantage of the one at Mercy as well. I had a similar experience with "my nurses" and would love to meet some other mamas and learn some tricks and tips...Have fun snuggling and spending time with your babe....
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