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does this seem cheap?

so my neice (on DHs side) got married in October to her partner but didnt tell her family til December. We just found out 2 weeks ago on FB when she changed her status. Still not alot of people noticed it. Not to many congrats. so I got her a gift card to target $30 and bed bath and beyond $30. does that seem cheap??
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Re: does this seem cheap?

  • considering that you weren't even told until two weeks ago, i think that is a very nice gift!
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  • They didn't invite you to anything, right?  If that's the case, I don't think that's cheap at all. 
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  • imagecara13:
    They didn't invite you to anything, right?  If that's the case, I don't think that's cheap at all. 

     

    Nope! Not sure who was there or where it was. They were very secretive about it.

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  • I don't think it's cheap. I think it's nice of you to send a gift to the couple when you weren't invited to the wedding, nor really told about it. 
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  • Only because it is family would I say that sounds cheap.  I would probably do 50 and 50 or just a flat $100 somewhere.
  • I think it is fine since they didn't tell you aside from a random FB notification and there was no reception/event invitation.
  • I think that since the way you found our was a status change on facebook you are being more then generous!
  • I don't think so.  It is the thought that counts not the amount of money.
  • imageasf619:
    I don't think it's cheap. I think it's nice of you to send a gift to the couple when you weren't invited to the wedding, nor really told about it. 

     

    Considering they didn't even have the decency to send an email out to tell you, the fact that you are sending anything makes you great IMO. Not cheap!

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    imageasf619:
    I don't think it's cheap. I think it's nice of you to send a gift to the couple when you weren't invited to the wedding, nor really told about it. 

     

    Considering they didn't even have the decency to send an email out to tell you, the fact that you are sending anything makes you great IMO. Not cheap!

    Ditto this!

  • Not cheap!
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