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Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Ladiesss *EDITED*
So here's the deal ladies. I'm doing the forbidden dirty delete. It seems this post is pissing people off, and I've decided it's just not worth it. I've realized trying to make peace with everyone is pointless. People are going to do what they want. To each her own.
(I am, however, leaving the picture of the llama. It's funny to me.)
*sara & clinton*
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Re: Ladiesss *EDITED*
Hey I like Tisha and I'm sure her post had no malice, but you know with all the drama that occurred and the apparent mutual dislike of the boards, I think she had a right to be upset by it. How she chose to handle it is her business. How she chooses to reveal her pregnancy is her business, even it if had previously posted in a public forum.
So if someone posts it here is it ok for them to post it on facebook? I think most of us agree that isn't ok, since we might tell each other and not reveal it to the entire world. Well some people might know others on TN that don't frequent TK.
So whatever - yeah it is kind of ridiculous to read a board that you profess to hate, but everyone has the right.
Trying to be the peacemaker/voice of reason is a bit like chasing your tail isn't it? You know pointless? People will do what they want and drama usually wins because it is more entertaining. Guys do the same thing on their car boards - my hubby said so
Who accused you of being the secret nasty poster on TK anyway? That person was pretty butthurt about the whole thing. And said some pretty nasty hurtful things so those that were called out so personally have a right to feel "butthurt" if they so choose. If they thought it was someone over here, why would they want personal info discussed here so that they could go back and say something about the pregnancy the next time the secret poster strikes if ever.
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Sara, i read both but boards but post more on the knot. If you had read everything on the knot you would see that they made up. This post will only make more drama not less.
Just my two cents
I just wanted to make note that I'm really not that classy.
I don't know if "made up" is the right term... I thought it was a dropped case, but it doesn't look like it, from what I read of Liz's most recent reply to that post.
I do not wish to participate in any drama, as I DO actually prefer puppies and rainbows :-) But, I had to say that much at least. And, honestly, there would have been zero drama if Liz had simply sent me a PM asking me to remove her name from the post or something like that, if she was that upset by my original post.
As I said over there, I honestly had no idea that this great divide thing was honestly such a BIG deal to some of the ladies around here and there. It just DID NOT occur to me that it was being taken THIS seriously. I still haven't divided the forums in my head I guess. I kind of still thought of it as one big online community where we ALL shared something in common. Before now, I really only posted more here simply because I prefer the way this forum is setup (I'm like the ONLY one, I know, but I prefer this way of PIPing and such).
That is all. :-)
Missing our little turkey.
Estimated Due Date 11/13/12 | Natural Miscarriage 4/17/12
I wish you'd photoshopped a PBR can into the ultrasound photo for this one post. I know, it would have been a lot of work, but man, it would have been worth it.
(And on a side note - what a great photo! It's rare that I'm actually able to see much more than a blob, but that photo is so clear. Hope everything is going smoothly with your pregnancy, and you're feeling ok.)
I haven't been on in a week and things are finally slow enough today I can hop back on. I haven't read any of the drama posts...but honestly reading this makes me not want to and just to ignore TN and TK entirely. I wish we could all just get past the drama. If you want to read both boards, who cares, do it, and post where you want, just avoid all the getting up in others biz-ness.
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There. It's not like it really affects my day-to-day life. I just don't particularly like being blamed for someone else's immaturity. The "secret poster" (let's call her the "grumpy bandit, shall we?) clearly had a big enough axe to grind to create an alter ego & follow people over there. Sure, the original drama was annoying, but I don't care nearly enough to continue the drama on a different board.
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This! (Ummm, I edited this because I have apparently not had enough caffeine this morning, and therefore completely forgot to quote what I was "this"-ing.)
I agree that it's a bunch of crap, and that there is an unbelievable level of immaturity going on, but it's not isolated on one side or the other. Both boards are throwing stuff back and forth, which kind of defeats the purpose of having two separate boards, don't you think?
So someone said or did something you don't like...there's a lot of that going on out there. If you waste your time stewing about it, you'll just be taking time away from something worth pursuing. The in-fighting and trash-talking aren't going to stop, whether you comment on them or not, so why give it any more space than it deserves?
Let the people who want to ride the drama llama keep their butts in the saddle. They're the ones who wind up looking like idiots in the end. Most of us have moved on quite some time ago and see no need to keep dredging it back up.
**DISCLAIMER: This is not aimed at any one person or group of people. It's just stating a thought. Flame if you want...I don't care, because I'm not participating.
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Estimated Due Date 11/13/12 | Natural Miscarriage 4/17/12
This. You're bringing it back open to anyone who was "in the dark" just to stir it all up again. If you hate drama, then why keep rehashing it? Let it die.
LOL.
Fair enough...the llama can stay, just because he's cute!
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I think my SIL dressed up as you (in a few months) for halloween a few years ago...
Rub it in, Destiny, rub it in. *sniff*
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It's fine to be friendly with everyone, but I think it's naive to say, "what? there's board drama? I just want to ignore it/get over and because I don't recognize that there's board drama what I do shouldn't be interpreted as perpetuating it." You know there are people who exclusively post on one board or the other by choice. If all people were comfortable posting with everyone from both boards there wouldn't be two boards, and everyone from TK would have ventured back over here. They didn't, so there's still a split. So even if YOU have nothing against anyone on either board, I think you have to respect the fact that "board drama" exists whether you personally want it to or not. And yes, sometimes you have to make decisions about what to post based on the relationships other people have.
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For real, yo! :-)
Missing our little turkey.
Estimated Due Date 11/13/12 | Natural Miscarriage 4/17/12