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sex slump.....scarey.
My fiance and I just got engaged this past October and are getting married this August. We are pretty stressed about the wedding because it's rather large, he has a lot going on with his family owned business right now, and I'm starting a new job soon. Needless to say we have a lot going on, but we haven't had sex in a month. This has been a pattern now for about 3 months. We have openly talked and fought about it, so there are no communication problems, but I feel like the talking about it has made it awkward now to try an do it more often. Does anybody have any advice? It's really starting to scare me.
Re: sex slump.....scarey.
Don't worry too much. My suggestion is to take a weekend and spend it together. Promise NOT to talk about the wedding at all. Get a hotel room (if you can afford too) and spend the whole weekend in the room!
You probably just have to get some time to reconnect with eachother!
Good luck!
My (now) husband and I went through the same slump during our engagement. Scared me too! It was the same sort of stress, obligations, and exhaustion caused situation.
The best advice i can give is to not let sex become another stressor on the list. Just remember to enjoy each other when you get the opportunity, and remember that things will slow down soon enough. Plus a little abstinence before the big day just makes the abundant opportunities to play catch up during the honeymoon all the more tempting.
Best of luck!