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Premature ejaculation.
This is a problem with DH and I but its not him that gets off too quickly its me. It doesn't matter if there is foreplay or not within minutes of sex I have orgasmed incredibly intensely and am pretty much done. I try and finish but it seems like such a chore and I am tired and ready to just lay down. I always make sure H finishes but I just don't know how to make myself last longer. I know most women have trouble getting off at all and seriously I wish that was me. I haven't ever had this problem with any other men and there are one or two positions that I can do that don't get me off immediately but they take a lot more effort. Does anyone know of a way that I can not get off so quickly???
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Re: Premature ejaculation.
This might be way out of line, but have you tried masturbation? I used to be a pretty quick orgasmer as well but then I started trying to make myself last longer, alone. It really helped.
Also, try bringing him right to the edge before he even touches you, that way he'll be as quick as you are but you don't lose any intimacy over the fast O
Could you start off by giving him oral or more foreplay so he's more "ready" before you start having sex?
Also, I'd start off with the positions that you don't easily orgasm in and then gradually move to those that do make you orgasm.
You may also want to use lube after you've orgasmed to make it more comfortable...sometimes it's kind of sensitive afterwards and the lube helps reduce the friction.