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Pregnant and Not Loving It
My fiance (28) and I (19) are having our first child together, well, my first and his third. He works everyday and I have to stay home. We have company over practically every night and we rarely have sex. Im not sure how to put the moves on him to get him to have sex with me. I am young but my looks have faded with the enlargment of my belly. Im not an oral person. On occasion I will because I know he likes it, but I just dont know how to make the first move. Can anyone offer some advice?
Re: Pregnant and Not Loving It
bahahahaha
I lurk the crap out of this board and relationships, and rarely post on either, this is great, good stuff.
ummmm....advice.
- don't marry someone 9 years older than you when you're barely an adult, you're going to mature so much between now and the time that you're 25 you will (hopefully) look back and say "WTF self"
- did you want to have a baby? if yes, then don't complain about staying home, many women don't have that option. if no, read above.
- "we rarely have sex" ----> where do babies come from? (for answer, see Jersey Shore post on Relationships board.)
- you're 9 yrs younger than him, PG or not, he should be happy and tearing your clothes off.
COUNSELING COUNSELING COUNSELING X 73289469263923487 billion.
Good luck, and I REALLY mean that!!
ETA: GD I sound like an uber-betch. PMS, sorry, but seriously, read it. let it sink in.
If this isn't MUD:
The question you should ask yourself is why a 28 year old man is with a 19 year old (and barely out of high school) girl instead of someone more his age? Is there something wrong with him?
{headdesk}
My fiance (28) and I (19) are having our first child together
use your words
talk to him. just say "hey hunny I'm so horny for you."
Or text him during the day and tell him you're wearing something sexy and you'll be waiting for him in bed when he gets home...
or wake him up in the mornings by rubbing him so he wakes up hard and you can have sex before he has to get ready for work (you can always go back to sleep since you get to stay home)
I couldnt agree more!
I seriously think the situation could be worse...She is a consenting adult and if she wants to be with an older man then thats her choice. If she loves him what does it matter to us. I dont think its fair that ppl are bashing her becasue of her and his age difference. It very well could work out and if it doesnt it doesnt c'est la vie.
On a side note...i am a younger girl with an older guy so i know how you feel with the whole sex situation. I have a much higher sex drive then my DH always have..now being pregnant he feels weird have sex with me just because hes afraid of hurting me
Have you tried talking to him about it? he might not realize how you feel and i dont think its your looks that are stopping him. It may feel weird for him to have sex with you during pregnancy. Talk to him. If you want this relationship to work communication is key. Also try some sexy lingerie it might help even with a pregnant belly . The pregnant belly can actually make it look sexier.
If you want to talk you can add me to msn my email is dragon_queen011@hotmail.com
GO YOU!!!! People on these boards can be so nasty! I had to stop trying to vent/get advice on the knot after a while because of all the mean replys. I had hoped the nest would be better, but nope people rarely let you down and most of these boards are just as horrible on here! I applaud all of you that at least try to give advice even if you don't agree with the poster!!!
I gave plenty of advice, just because it came with a side of harsh reality doesn't mean it isn't advice. I'm sure that everyone who comes on here and posts is doing it for a reason, usually that reason being the hope that people who don't know them, will say what they want to hear because the people IRL are not.
Sorry, but I'd rather someone try and stop me from wrecking my life than blow smoke up my arse over something, and since I don't personally know her, I have no reason to BS her about the situation.
When I had only been on here for like a day or two, I used to read stuff and think people were just being betches, but then I realized that they're just being honest, because they have no reason not to. If you want someone to tell you what you want to hear, go talk to your grandma or best friend. The people on these boards are likely neither, thus are going to tell you the ugly truth, myself included.
Hellz, I even apologized for being PMS-y in the post!
If he's your fiance, then you're not a Mrs. ANYTHING.
fiance /=/ husband
Just because you changed your facebook relationship status to "married" doesn't mean he's actually your husband.