October 2010 Weddings
Denise91980
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Back from TB :(
Hey ladies! I haven't been posting here much because I was over lurking more and posting a bit on TB. I found out on 1/2 that I was pregnant and had my first appointment and u/s pm 1/18. That day wasn't fun because there was an ice storm and I got into a fender bender on the way there. They did an ultrasound and heard, but didn't see a heartbeat, which they said was normal because I was only a little over 6 weeks pregnant. Last week I went for my second appointment and they brought me in for the u/s first. There was no heartbeat. I was heartbroken and sat alone in a room waiting for the doctor to talk to me. After about 20 minutes the doctor came in and was obviously uncomfortable by my crying because she stared at me for a few minutes before saying a word, then suggested that I come back later because I was clearly upset. I told her that this wasn't a therapy session, where silence is appreciated, I wanted to discuss my options to try my best to get past this unfortunate situation. I went for a D&C on Thursday and was pretty much in a funk the whole weekend. Physically I feel ok, but emotionally I am still pretty much on a roller coaster. I posted a little on the loss boards over there, but reading some of the stories just makes me cry more. So, here I am back over here looking to regain some normalcy again. Thanks for listening.
BFP #1 1/1/11 EDD 9/10/11 dx:no hb DNC on 2/2/11
BFP #2 12/28/11 natural m/c on 2/6/12 BFP#3 2/16/13 dx:ectopic on 2/27 (given methotrexate)
Re: Back from TB :(
Denise - Wow, I can only imagine your pain. My sister had a miscarriage a couple of months ago and comforted herself by knowing that so many women go through this, and then they go on to have happy, healthy babies with future pregnancies. Still, that doesn't make the loss any easier. I am so sorry. Glad that you are back here. Just wish it were under better circumstances.
I'm very sorry Denise. Both for your loss and for the way the doc suggested you come back later as if there is ever a great time to talk about something so devastating. You are welcome here with open arms! Lots of prayers your way!
est. 10/10/10
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there's a whole bunch of listening ears and open arms over here. I'm so sorry, darling.
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I'm so sorry to hear that. You are definitely in my thoughts and prayers. We're always here for you if you need to get something out.
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This. As all have stated, we're here for you, and will do what we can. I also think it's time to find a new doctor's office
I understand that doctors can't get emotionally involved with everyone, but you don't need to be involved to be sympathetic, or at least even a human being.
T&Ps headed your way.
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I agree with this statement. Your Dr should have had a lot more tact.
I am so sorry for your loss and now you must be on such an emotional rollercoaster. I wish you the best. On another note, glad to have you back, though I wish it was under happier circumstances.
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I'm so sorry. I can't even imagine what you're going through, but like everyone else said, feel free to talk about it (or anything!) on here any time, even if just to vent.
You and your husband will be in my prayers.
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