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Recognizing people on the nest

It finally happened. (well, actually years ago I recognized mrswright07, but that's okay. I had no worries that we both were on these boards). 

Moments ago I  stumbled across a post on a national board from a woman I went to high school with. I was thinking about the likelihood of this a few days ago and now it has happened. I've always disliked that I used me real name on here, but she didn't even have her real name anywhere. I recognized her from her sig picture. She even has a blog that I'm tempted to scroll through, but that would make me feel creepy. haha

 I'm just sort of in shock that my nest world and real life have finally collided. Booooo.

  

Re: Recognizing people on the nest

  • I know what you mean, I like having those two worlds separate. FWIW, it wouldn't be creepy at all for you to scroll through her blog; I mean, that's why it's out there and if she was worried about only wanting certain people to read it, she'd password protect it.
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  • I did check it out! It looks like she's trying become one of those that makes money off blogging, so I'm sure it's no big deal. I also think she might be more of a bumpie than a nestie.
  • It has happened quite a bit for me.. so weird

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  • I haven't seen anyone I know previously posting, but there is a few nesties I have found out through facebook I have silly random 6 degrees of Seperation typeConnections with :)
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  • I had my real life and nest collide - via my DH, but it's one I do not mind at all.  There is a nestie/bumpie he grew up with on here and she recognized him from my blog, but did not say anything until I did.

    I'm glad that he knew her and I finally got to meet her. 

  • I had that happen to me; I was the one who got recognized by a pic of me and DH in my siggy.

    Now, the person who found me is totally cool, and so I don't mind. But I immediately took that picture down, and won't put another one in where you can see faces. It just kinda creeps me out even though I understand everything on here is totally public domain.

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  • i went to law school w/ a nestie .. discovered this on one of the national boards. we weren't in the same section so we never met there but my former roommate was in her section.
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    It just kinda creeps me out even though I understand everything on here is totally public domain.

    Exactly how I feel. I don't even talk about anything private on here, yet I still get weirded out thinking someone that recognizes me could be reading my posts without my knowledge. Overtime I've taken down a lot of identifying information (blogs and pictures) which I have always enjoyed sharing since I'm so uncomfortable with it. I think I've actually avoided people for this long because I got married so young. But now that I'm in my mid-twenties, I think I'll come across more people.

      I think there should just be an unstated rule that everyone should let the other poster know they have been recognized. :)

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