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different sex schedules.
My husband and I are on completely different sex schedules which usually means that we "click" about once or twice a month. Usually we just accept the fact, but sometimes one of us will try and fail and be annoyed for idk an hour or so.
He is a right before bed person, and I prefer in the afternoon or at 9 or 10pm at the latest.
Any suggestions?
I don't want to schedule sex 
Re: different sex schedules.
Would you rather have sex or no sex??
Schedule for a bit until you get into a routine that works. What's going on right now is clearly not working.
My husband and I were sort of the same way. I was only ever in the mood in the morning, and he preferred before bed, when I was tired and hoping to go to sleep. It didn't take long for him to decide that morning sex was better than no sex, so it never seemed to cause much of a problem for us. He was willing to change his "schedule".
Now, though, we tend to only have time before bed (most mornings our son is our alarm clock, so that rules out morning sex). It kind of sucks for me, but I'm getting more used to it.
Both of you are able to change your "schedule"- one of you has to do it.
Pretty much. It might be a power struggle thing. I know that neither of us are very sexual people, like if I'm not in the mood or open to the idea previously it just hurts for some reason. When we were younger I used to just deal with it but now I don't see the point to "do it" if it's not going to be enjoyable.