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Leslie
i read your confession about your BIL/Maci.
i'm really sorry to hear that she isnt your niece by blood, im sure that must be really hard for everyone involved. i hope that maybe your BIL and his gf can work things out. i know you and jon both care about maci so hopefully things work out for the best.
*hugs*
oh and im totally giving your MIL the sideeye haha.
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Re: Leslie
Thanks. It was still hard to hear when he told us, but we always said to him no matter what, she will still be our niece and she is part of the family to us.
Yeah, MIL gets the side eye from me quite a bit on quite a few things! lol
is her biological father involved at all? or do you think ben will just step in and continue to take the roll as father?
haha your MIL sounds like quite a peach.
As far as I know, the other guy wants nothing to do with the baby.
I think that Ben will continue to step up and be the father to her. I know they talked about getting married but we both told him to at least wait another year or two and see where they are at in their relationship before making that choice. If they stay together and he wants to make her legally his that is great! But its a huge decision to make at any age, let alone at 19/20 and just finding out that Maci is not his. So, we will see what happens!
Yeah, I see how MIL is now with Kristy and the baby so it does worry me that she will be overbearing when we have kids, but I usually can just tune her out.
*Side note* She somehow got into Kristy's room on delivery day and sat at the door, behind a curtain yelling and telling her to push. You better believe if she is anywhere near me that day I will get my big pregnant-in labor ass off that bed and chase her down myself!
its unfortunate that he doesnt want anything to do with her, but its probably best in the long run. especially if she has ben.
thats true, it is a really big decision. i hope they make the right choice for all of them. i cant imagine how he must feel finding out that she isnt his, but i guess its better to know than always wonder.
i dont know what i would do in his situation, so i definitely give him kudos. thats a big responsibility at 19 especially if she isnt biologically his.
i think its your mother and MILs duty to be overbearing when you have a baby haha. i see how my SIL is handling things and it makes me glad that im never having kids. you'll figure it out though. ultimately, you and Jon will be the parents so the decisions will be yours even if people dont agree with you.
wow. i would want none of that. i think when you get pregnant and start to discuss a labor plan you need to set down some definite ground rules. yikes.