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Re: sexy time...
3-4x a week.
I'm good with that, I dont' think I'd want any more
We've always had a weird sexy time "schedule"....Sexy time was NOT a big part of our relationship - we didn't want the whole relationship based on sexy time and I was good with that when we were dating...
Now that we are married I could totally go for more sexy time...Ugh I hate to admit this but the last time (it was awesome) was Christmas eve...so to answer my own questions I want MORE sexy time...
I think everyone knows my answer. How often am I getting it? Never. How often do I want it. All the time!!!
Actually, I'm doing ok. I've never had a problem going without when I'm not in a relationship. It's when I'm IN the relationship and am not getting it when it becomes a problem
Once every 2-3 weeks.
I'll say I want to want it more. We used to waaayyyyy more often. I just haven't gotten the urge back yet.
2 on average
I wish it was more.
I have to admit with IF, our sex life (at least for me) has a different take on it and I hate that. I just do not feel as attractive as I used to be. Its hard to describe. Everything is so rigid when it comes to IF and scheduling, I wish we did not have care about this stuff but we do.
Ugh...I am going to eat a candy bar now.
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I'm sorry to hear you feel that way. I'm sure YH finds you just as attractive. Your beautiful!
I never thought about all the ways that IF can affect life until recently knowing the few of you who are having problems. I'm so sad to see such great people deal with IF and I think good thoughts for all of you all the time. I cannot wait for the day you all announce your BFPs.
Thank you for sharing with us and know that we are always here. Hugs!
While I didn't have nearly as much trouble as you and some of the other ladies I totally get hating the planning...Sex became a chore to us and we HATED it...I felt like he was just having sex with me because he had to not because he wanted too...It really takes a number on your self esteem.
Hang in there and I'll be thinking good thoughts for you!!!
Depends on the week since we are TTC. The golden week 5-7 times (exhausting!), the other 2 weeks ... 1-3 times depending on the mood and everything going on that week.
More / Less / Perfect ... again depends on the week
This. Sometimes we'll go a week or two without though, because of the times where it's GOGOGO.
A+S | Met 8/24/06 | Married 9/27/08
Started TTC 12/2008 | dx PCOS 5/2009
6 failed clomid/femara/TI cycles, 1 failed clomid/ovidrel/IUI cycle
Successful Cycle: 5/12/11 - 1000mg Metformin + 100mg Clomid(late response) + TI = BFP
? 2/13/12 - We proudly welcomed our daughter, Hadley Teresa! ?
? Lots of Luck to all of 3T/IF ?
Hugs Sarah! I know it hasn't been an easy road for you guys and I am praying you get you BFP SOON!!!
THANKS! My chart looks promising this cycle, but I think it's just a fluke/lie (I don't O on my own, silly FF). I go tomorrow to my RE to find out when to start provera to start my IUI cycle
A+S | Met 8/24/06 | Married 9/27/08
Started TTC 12/2008 | dx PCOS 5/2009
6 failed clomid/femara/TI cycles, 1 failed clomid/ovidrel/IUI cycle
Successful Cycle: 5/12/11 - 1000mg Metformin + 100mg Clomid(late response) + TI = BFP
? 2/13/12 - We proudly welcomed our daughter, Hadley Teresa! ?
? Lots of Luck to all of 3T/IF ?
Good luck at the RE!!!!
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ditto both Luen and Mary.
it's my own fault it's not more. work is crazy and most nights I'm still working when he goes to bed. nights I get to go to bed earlier, I'm exhausted and have more than once ignored his attempts at initiating because I want to go to sleep.