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WWYD? Last wknds events
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Honestly? I would have pushed his sorry a$$ right off the bed and told him to go fVck himself. I'm a little more aggressive...and maybe more angry.
But I think the way you handled it was really good. Hopefully he realized that he hurt you, and slows down on the drinking.
I think you handled it just fine. I kind of agree with Dyork, but I'd probably have 2nd thoughts about getting angry back at him, in his state. ESPECIALLY if it was something you'd never witnessed him doing before. I think it probably would have scared me a bit.
What was his response, other than looking mortified? What did he say?
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I'm so sorry that you had to deal with his drunken *** antics
I think you handled it very well, and I hope that it never happens again.
I probably would have engaged him in that moment, told him that he was being a drunk as$hat and that I was just trying to help.
I dont know him but i dont think that was intentional. He spent a night out with the guys, and he drank too much. If it ever happens again/happens sober, then I'd be concerned but you were right to address it.
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Seriously. That sh*t wouldn't fly in our house, drunk or not.
I think you handled it fine the next morning, though, and I really do hope this serves as a wake-up call for him. It sounds like he does have some issues around alcohol, at least excessive amounts of alcohol. And when you factor in his family history, he might want to think about avoiding it all together. At least for a while.
Thanks ladies. I've wanted to tell someone about it, but decided I didn't want to tell my friends or family and alter than opinoin of him in anyways, especially since it's the first time anything has ever happened.
He said he was really sorry and didn't remember saying those things but that it still wasn't an excuse. He agreed that if it happens again, he'll see someone about it.
in a side note: I think that my crappy Friday cancelled out his crappy Saturday (realizing I left car unlocked) in a strange way.
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I probably would have done the exact same thing, hannah. My sister, SIL, and best friend have all handled the same situation similar to what you did, and it hasn't happened again.
With my sister actually broke up with her S/O of 4 years for about a month for the sh*t he pulled after coming home from a night of drinking (they live together). They got back together and he has cut his drinking back immensely.
If someone starts drinking to the point that they can no longer respect their spouse, something is seriously wrong, and it deserves drastic action. This was his warning.
My best friends husband actually made a scene in public (she was trying to get him to leave withe her because he clearly had already consumed too much), yelling at her in front of everyone. He then vomited on someone else's car, and in their bed. She slept in another room, not crying or anything, just pissed. The next day, he didn't remember anything, but he was in one hell of a doghouse for a few days.
And like your husband, none of these guys are abusive - I'm actually very close with all of them and love them dearly. They all got carried away and screwed up badly - hopefully they learn a good lesson.
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Emily- thank you so much for sharing that info! Hopefully he shapes up! We'll see how this weekend goes! haha
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You handled it well. He was drunk enough to not remember the conversation, which indicates to me that if you'd addressed it that night it wouldn't have gone well (he'd probably either blow up, have a drunken melt down, and not know about it in the morning, which would leave you even madder).
I think his response is key - did he have any idea what elicited this verbal spew? Did he apologize, or address that he thinks his drinking should be moderated?
Brooke- Nope, one of the major benefits of living in a big city - plenty of cabs and public transit. We both know better than to drink and drive as we lost a hs friend getting hit by a DD.
I mean he seemed remorseful but only so much so as he didn't remember. The only think I could think that would have sparked the comments is my telling him to get up and go to the bathroom.
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Me too!
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lol stalker jk
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