December 2010 Weddings
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What is the Stupidest thing you've fought about?
I have to admit I never thought the day would come where I'd find myself in an argument with my husband over the proper disposal time of hypothetical orange juice...!
I honestly don't know how our conversation about my quest to purge the fridge (de)volved into a spat about OJ - of which there is none in the fridge...<sigh> See what long absences do to newlyweds?!? LOL
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Re: What is the Stupidest thing you've fought about?
He refuses to angle the side mirror downwards while parallel parking. Instead he will strain his neck, and push up on his elbow on the console between the seats. We've been taking my car for errands on the weekends because his car's heat is always turned on high (the knob broke...), and I said that if he was going to drive MY car, I wanted him to use the mirror instead of pushing and pulling again things in MY car. It turned into this whole big ridiculous argument :P
That and sometimes he drives like a bat out of hell. I've also asked that if he's driving my car to drive like he's driving his grandmother. Speeding a little is fine, but weaving in and out of traffic and such - EEK!
yeah, lots of little stupid things. Am I the only one here, but really and truely I feel like we argue more now than we ever have. And, it's ALWAYS stupid little things. ALWAYS! I feel like the wedding time warped us ahead about 20 years. Cuddling on the couch to watch movies? All but GONE! Holding hands out in public? All but GONE! The I Love You's still happen but the feeling is more mundane than real. Am I the only one? I'm ready to go back to pre-wedding days and save the time, hassle and expense and just "live in sin" forever. It's not the wedding I miss (not even in the slightest!), it's US.
H and I are definitely bickering a lot more now, but we've only had one big blow out fight since we got married (I wanted him to help out a second cousin and he didn't want to do it, it just devolved from there). It's definitely not so bad as it used to be. We've lived together for 4 years, and when I first moved in we fought about EVERYthing. I swear, if I had any way of moving out, I don't think we would have lasted.