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MIL Overnight...1st Time

Here's the thing, we recently bought our first home, and moved in (meaning that we moved the bed in) last night. My MIL and SIL have decided to come up for the weekend...because this is when it fits in their schedules. That being said, we have to move everything on Friday, and we have to prep for overnight guests in the meantime. On top of it all, they have never been to visit...we're feeling a lot of pressure here.

What are the major things we should have ready so that they feel comfortable? All that comes to mind for me is a lot of alcohol.

Re: MIL Overnight...1st Time

  • Have you (meaning you and your DH) expressed to them that this weekend is a moving-into-your-new-home weekend? If so, and they still insist on coming, I would prepare an air mattress at most.  And as for entertainment, they can either help you move in or be on their own.

    Yes, lots of alcohol is a must!

  • I'm w/ EffDat.  I'd either be saying "no" or saying "here's a box you can unpack".  I JUST moved 2 months ago.  Planning on "entertaining" guests is not something I'd entertain, at all.
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  • imageshellyrae6:

    My MIL and SIL have decided to come up for the weekend...because this is when it fits in their schedules. 

    Why do they get to decide when it's okay to come over your place - without any invitation?

    I'd say, "Sorry MIL and SIL, that date just won't work for us." or as ECB mentioned by suggesting they help unpack rather than you entertaining them.

  • Your husband should tell his mom and sister that your house will be in no shape to host guests and that the two of you will invite them when you're ready for a visit.
  • I would say if you want to come visit you are either going to have to entertain yourselves or help us unpack.
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  • imageshellyrae6:

    What are the major things we should have ready so that they feel comfortable? All that comes to mind for me is a lot of alcohol.

    A hotel?
  • I would suggest a backbone for you and a set of balls for your husband. Maybe you guys have already packed those things. They dont get to decide. Tell them its not convenient, if you must suggest another time.
  • This wouldn't be a big deal for me and my family--they wouldn't expect anything really. They would help move/unpack and my mom would be happy to bring in her own sheets, etc. If your family is not so easy going, I would suggest you tell them no.
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