Toys- To buy or not to buy?

jadeorchid21 · February 2011

Ok, I have never bought naughty games to do on Vday. I am thinking about it but not sure just because they seem cheesy. What do you think?

Blackwidow13 · February 2011

Buy some toys and have fun!

Roherynn · February 2011

Toys are fun! It does seem kinda cheesy, but you won't think that when you are having fun ;-)

Swan21 · February 2011

I'm don't wanna threadjack, but along the line of toys, how do I get DH to try them. He seems weirded out by them, but I think it would be fun to incorporate them into our bedroom festivities.

carcrashheart · February 2011

check out your nearest adult store & have fun!

as for getting your DH to try toys-if he isn't in to the suggestion, then i personally suggest easing him in to it. an intimate night & a new toy. start with something easy, like handcuffs or some *** rings. however, i'm not sure trying to get DH to try toys while you're 37 weeks pregnant is the best time. maybe spend the next 6 weeks looking for a few good toys and slowing getting your DH to get in to the idea.

jadeorchid21 · February 2011

Swan21:
I'm don't wanna threadjack, but along the line of toys, how do I get DH to try them. He seems weirded out by them, but I think it would be fun to incorporate them into our bedroom festivities.

Just go for it! Get something subtle that is not going to cost you a lot like the dice. I just get wierded out myself by them.

I ended up getting some lingerie, a massage oil candle and a vibrating *** ring. There were no sex games there so I might have to try a different place.

Swan21 · February 2011

carcrashheart:

check out your nearest adult store & have fun!

as for getting your DH to try toys-if he isn't in to the suggestion, then i personally suggest easing him in to it. an intimate night & a new toy. start with something easy, like handcuffs or some *** rings. however, i'm not sure trying to get DH to try toys while you're 37 weeks pregnant is the best time. maybe spend the next 6 weeks looking for a few good toys and slowing getting your DH to get in to the idea.

I agree about the 37 week pregnant part, I was thinking more for after post partum recovery, and getting our sex life back. We will see how it all goes!

heather&edwin · February 2011

I am all about the toys! My husband finds it such a turn on that I take charge of my sexuality...aaand he thinks its really cool to use them on me and experience sex from a new angle.

miller4285 · February 2011

Swan21:
carcrashheart:

check out your nearest adult store & have fun!
as for getting your DH to try toys-if he isn't in to the suggestion, then i personally suggest easing him in to it. an intimate night & a new toy. start with something easy, like handcuffs or some *** rings. however, i'm not sure trying to get DH to try toys while you're 37 weeks pregnant is the best time. maybe spend the next 6 weeks looking for a few good toys and slowing getting your DH to get in to the idea.

I agree about the 37 week pregnant part, I was thinking more for after post partum recovery, and getting our sex life back. We will see how it all goes!

I actually discovered my love for toys with my last pregnancy!

FSUalum · February 2011

games, no. toys, yes.

Pexxa · February 2011

Buy. Definitly. There are tons of women-friendly sex stores out there. Start there, then expand. Trust me.

missmelanie81 · February 2011

Toys are awsome!!!! I will admit when we first started using them I was a little shy about it, then I relaxed and it has opened up a whole new sexual experience. We dont use them everytime..but when we do it makes things new and exciting. Fiance loves using them on me and I love that we share this sexual bond. We love visiting the local sex story. We buy alot of "couple" vibrators. Like ****rings.

fireytiger · February 2011

It depends on the couple. They actually really bother FH, he grew up in a SUPER conservative family and so that kind of stuff is totally taboo. Which is hilarious to me, because I actually worked in a porn store/sex shop once, and it was the best job I ever had lol! I've taken him to the local sex toy store and it really made him uncomfortable, and the idea of having those things at home bothers him a lot too. So, we make do without them. It all depends on you and your SO.

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