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Dirty talk, WWYD?

If you're having sex with your H and you're doing a little bit of dirty talk during the act and then he says, "Say my name, ***"... WWYD? Would you go with it? Would you be offended? What do you think? Can dirty talk go too far?

Re: Dirty talk, WWYD?

  • The bleeped word is biitch by the way.
  • If you're already doing dirty talk, I don't see why you'd be offended.  After all, isn't the point of dirty talk that what you're saying is somewhat taboo and offensive outside the bedroom?
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  • I'd go with it. My H is comfortable enough to play into dirty talk, I'm not going to set limits on what should be said. IMO it's something that gets said in the heat of the moment, and if calling me a biitch turns him on during dirty talk, I'm all for it. Dirty talk is...well dirty. I'm sure some men can take dirty talk too far but my H knows from daily life what words offend me and what words don't.
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  • Can't go too far for me.


  • That one wouldn't fly with me.
  • go for it...it's fun...I love dirty talk...its sexy

    go with the flow....don't think too much...enjoy your sexy time 

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  • If there is term that offends you, mention it ahead of time.  I hate the word "***".  It isn't sexy under any circumstances for me.  I used to make that clear to my lovers from the get-go -- for dirty talk, for fights or even to describe the driver who just cut you off on the freeway.

    I am fine with everything else. 

  • If it bothered me, I would go with it at the time and later say something like, "I like dirty talk, honey, but I think that I'd prefer to keep names out of it."

     

    Personally, it wouldn't bother me.  Hubs and I never curse, so it actually is completely a sexual thing to us.  

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  • imagemagsugar13:
    Can't go too far for me.

    This.

    I've been called some stuff in the bedroom that would probably make a hooker blush. It's dirty talk for a reason, and there's a big difference between what's said in the heat of the moment during sex and what's said outside of the bedroom. I keep the two entirely distinguished and separate.

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    Are you serious???
  • imagerunawaywifey:
    That one wouldn't fly with me.

     

    What she said.  Dirty talk is one thing, name calling - not acceptable (for ME)

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  • same as above, the dirtier and nastier the better! Some stuff DH says totally takes me back but then I love that he can get into it!
  • I would be pissed if DH did that! For freaking sure.
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