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Greek Baptism Gift

We are invited to a Greek Baptism in a couple weeks and am curious what the proper gift is.  I am Lutheran and do not know anything about Greek Orthodox.  I didnt really want to give money as the parents arent married so I kinda feel like one of them will just pocket it.  The child is a girl if that matters.  Can anyone give me any advice on that?

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Re: Greek Baptism Gift

  • Hi Fellow Lutheran,

    I sat and thought about this one for awhile. What about a nice picture frame to remember the day? The couple could put in a pic of the godparents and the baby or whatever. Or an etched plate with her name, DOB and BAP dates?

  • When in doubt, give a savings bond.:) Great for a college fund.:)
  • I agree with the savings bond idea as well - only person who gets the money is the child.  You'll need the child's social security number though...
  • imageBellaPteris:
    You'll need the child's social security number though...

     

    You don't need the child's social security number any more. You could put your soc. # on it. There is even a space to check off when you don't know the child's soc. #.

    I would also put yourself as the other name on the bond. Whoever the other person is on the bond can cash it.

    We asked when we were getting bonds at a bank for a cousin's child.

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  • I always get a savings bond and a children's book of prayers or bible stories. 

    Ask the parent what their ss# is if you don't want to put your # on.

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  • Money is a common gift for Greek celebrations. A bond is a good alternative...the child's SSN isn't necessary as you can give yours as the buyer. Beyond that, any gift you'd give for a Lutheran ceremony (I'm not familiar with what rituals you have for babies) should be appropriate here, as well.
  • imageWine Enthusiast:

    We are invited to a Greek Baptism in a couple weeks and am curious what the proper gift is.  I am Lutheran and do not know anything about Greek Orthodox.  I didnt really want to give money as the parents arent married so I kinda feel like one of them will just pocket it.  The child is a girl if that matters.  Can anyone give me any advice on that?

    why are you even going then? clearly you're MUCH better than they are, and shouldn't have to waste your time with petty criminals who steal from their own kids.

  • imagebabygirl809:

    imageBellaPteris:
    You'll need the child's social security number though...

     

    You don't need the child's social security number any more. You could put your soc. # on it. There is even a space to check off when you don't know the child's soc. #.

    I would also put yourself as the other name on the bond. Whoever the other person is on the bond can cash it.

    We asked when we were getting bonds at a bank for a cousin's child.

    I didn't realize I could use my name with the child's.  I've never bought a bond before and just assumed it had to be the parents name and child's name.  That's how all of mine were but I had never actually looked into it.  I didn't really want to ask the parents for their ssn so that is a good alternative!

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  • imageBuying1stHome:

    Hi Fellow Lutheran,

    I sat and thought about this one for awhile. What about a nice picture frame to remember the day? The couple could put in a pic of the godparents and the baby or whatever. Or an etched plate with her name, DOB and BAP dates?

    These are good ideas, I may go with a bond and pic frame.  I just didn't know what was customary for Greeks and if they had a specific tradition for baptisms I would've like to stick to that.

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  • Whatever you would buy for any baptism. Greek/Russian Orthodox is a religion, just like being Catholic or Lutheran, it just happens that the people that make up the church are of a common ethnic heritage.
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