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am i being a biotch?
ok so my dad wanted to have some pics taken of him and Bennett (he never is in pics and he wanted some nice ones with his grandson). we had a girl that i went to HS with do his pics at about 8 months and they were amazing. she's very talented. so i contacted her and she's going to take his pics today. she lives out of town (about 2-3 hours i think) and i was flexible and said "whenever you plan on coming down, i don't want you to make a special trip", etc. i mean, my dad is paying her full price so it's not like i get a deal.
so, today is when the pics are schedule and it worked out really well bc i have the day off and my dad was able to get off work in the afternoon. i scheduled an afternoon time so she didnt have to come down the night before.
i get an email at 9am this morning saying they had snow/ice last night and their power is out...so her morning routine (she has 2 boys) has been thrown off and she doesnt know what the roads are and can we reschedule? ok..seirously? darnit! i emailed her back and said of course i don't want her to endanger her kids...but for me, i'm not sure about rescheduling. i had bennett out of daycare already, i had the day off, my dad has the day off, etc. i nicely said, can you check the roads and get back to me? we r available all afternoon in case she was worried about gettin here in time.
was that the wrong thing to do? should i hav ejust said ok let's reschedule?
June 2011
Re: am i being a biotch?
I don't think it is bitchy. I mean sure the roads are bad in the morning. But as the day goes on, as long as it has stopped snowing/icing, the roads will have improved. I don't think it asking too much for her to check the roads condition later before ruling the appointment out completely.
Hopefully she'll be able to make it.
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