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Happy birthday to 4 strangers

I booked today off work to just stay at home by myself and be sad or go for a run or do whatever I darn well please.  Five years ago today a medical mistake took my mother from my life forever.  I still miss her every day although it does get easier to deal with.

I will try and be positive, though, and think of the fact that 4 people are celebrating their 'new birthdays' today through my Mom's organ donation.

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Re: Happy birthday to 4 strangers

  • Aw Beth, I'm sorry.  ((hugs))  Go for a nice, long, head clearing run, and then curl up on the couch with the fur-babies.  My orders!
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    We'll just not tell H about this little fact, m'kay?
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  • ::hugs::  I'm sorry, Beth. 
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  • Hugs. I am so sorry. I think you are very smart to take the day to yourself and do what you need to do.

    Like you said, there are 4 people that you may not know, but are celebrating because your mom did a wonderful thing by being an organ donor.

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  • ((hugs))

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    FSH at 14.5 - 4.21.11 | CCCT - (CD3 8.8,CD10 12.2)| dx w/ DOR @ 28 yrs old
    IUI#1 + clomid 8.29.11 (our anniversary)
    BFP#2 9.10.11 | EDD 5.21.12 | beta 1 @ 14dpi:232 | beta 2 @17dpi:703 | beta 3 @24dpi:7,174
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  • imageraynes:
    Aw Beth, I'm sorry.  ((hugs))  Go for a nice, long, head clearing run, and then curl up on the couch with the fur-babies.  My orders!

    Thanks, ladie.

    raynes - while I'm curled up, am I allowed to eat chocolate?

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  • So sorry, Beth.  {{hugs}}
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  • I'm so sorry. =(
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  • Lots of e-hugs coming your way!

    And I think chocolate is a yes.

  • {{Hugs}}  I think a day to yourself is just the right thing.
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  • Hugs to you! You have the right to do whatever you want to today.

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  • imagerxbeth:

    Thanks, ladie.

    raynes - while I'm curled up, am I allowed to eat chocolate?

    Absolutely!  Preferably dark for the health benefits, but any kind is acceptable.

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  • ::Hugs::

    Enjoy your day knowing your mom was a wonderful women who gave the gift of life to 4 strangers.

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  • I'd hug you, but I'm all germy.

    I think chocolate is a necessity. 

  • Hugs Beth. It was a wonderful gift that she gave those 4 people.
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  • Hugs to you and your family! Chocolate is DEFINITELY in order.
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  • Hugs, Beth, lots of them.
  • Big hugs to you today.
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  • Lots of hugs.
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  • Lots of hugs headed your way!
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  • many hugs headed your way. This really touched me, and reaffirmed my organ donor decision. What a legacy. 
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  • I think taking the day off to yourself is a great idea, hopefully including a chocolate induced coma. Lots of hugs headed your way.
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  • Oh Beth I hope you find peace today, I can't imagine how much today must be hard. I'm glad you are able to find some gladness in that 4 people were able to live because of your mother.
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  • Thanks for all the hugs.  You ladies always seem to find a way to make me feel warm and fuzzy.

    I went to the gym with expectations of a 6mile+ run and was feeling great.  Just before 4 miles I realized that I was wearing my new sports bra that chafes me sometimes and I didn't put any vaseline on so I stopped at 4 miles so I wouldn't rub too much skin off my poor chest.  After that I ellipticalled.

    I did go to Bulk Barn and get some veggie flutes and dark chocolate rose buds.  I bought WAY too many rosebuds and ate probably half of them Embarrassed  Now my tummy hurts and I have a migraine starting up.  I've taken ibuprofen but didn't get to it soon enough so Zomig, here I come.

    Otherwise, I'm feeling as good as I can.  My Dad put a nice memorium in the Windsor Star from all of us and I'm looking forward to going over there with my flowers and see him tonight.

    Again, I thank you ladies for all the hugs today.  Honestly, the way I deal with this IRL is I want people to acknowledge that I'm sad and not pressure me by giving me space but not actually talk to me about why I'm sad.  I know that makes no sense but I keep to myself.  But, in my internet life, I have no idea talking about it.  I guess because it's not face to face?  Now I'm rambling.

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  • Beth I'm so sorry for your loss. I also had a family member pass away who was an organ donor and although it does help to know someone else was able to keep their loved one as a result, at the end of the day it's still a sucky situation and seems unfair. Just keep eating the hell out of that chocolate, cry if you feel like crying, and know that we are thinking about ya :)

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  • Hugs and chocolate.  We're all here for you.

    Now jumping domestically.

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    Well that was a crazy couple of years.

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