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I thought this was pretty profound

Making the decision to have a child is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body. ~ Elizabeth Stone
"Don't marry a man unless you would be PROUD to have a son exactly like him." ~ Unknown

Re: I thought this was pretty profound

  • I read his blog occasionally and I like a lot of what he has to say.  He does make you stop and think! 
    "Beer is living proof that God loves us and wants us to be happy."
    ~Benjamin Franklin

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  • Sounds like the exact thing my famiy struggles with and that I've had to work hard to overcome.
  • That was such a wonderful read.  Thank you so much for sharing that!

    I think most people can relate to that information.

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  • I really liked that. It is something that I talk about with a friend a lot.

    She has been going through infertility treatments and is unusually open about that. I had a miscarriage a few years ago and tell people fairly easily. We have talked about that fine line between oversharing (we don't want to be THAT person) and sharing your life.

    If I had not told so many people about my miscarriage (I had to because it happened after the 12 week mark so we had announced the pregnancy to a lot of people after that milestone), I would not have heard the tons of stories from others in return about their own experiences with it.  

    These things are real life, and I feel like the more that you can be real about what is going on, the more in return others share their real experiences. 

    Thanks for sharing that! 

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    If I had not told so many people about my miscarriage (I had to because it happened after the 12 week mark so we had announced the pregnancy to a lot of people after that milestone), I would not have heard the tons of stories from others in return about their own experiences with it.  

    These things are real life, and I feel like the more that you can be real about what is going on, the more in return others share their real experiences. 

    I totally agree.  I was very open about our infertility issues.  I remember one day a coworker came into my office about something.  We were chatting and I mentioned something about our IF - probably treatments I was going to have.

    She was shocked and goes "You too?  We're going through IVF too.  Oh my God- you're the first person in real life I've told that to." - and it created a bond that led to a stronger friendship between us.

    I totally respect a person's desire to keep these issues private, but I really felt that for me to be open, it led to her feeling like she finally had someone who understood it and understood her.  It was that experience that made me glad I was open about it.

    "Beer is living proof that God loves us and wants us to be happy."
    ~Benjamin Franklin

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    DS dx with celiac disease 5/28/10

  • This blog may have just made me cry- not that I'm willing to admit that.  :)
  • thank you so very much for posting about this blog!  I bookmarked it so I can return and do more reading as time allows.
  • That was a really thought provoking blog...and the stories that the ladies shared after helped to bring it to another level.  We all strive to be perfect and forget there is no perfect to be obtained.  One person's perfect is another's disaster.
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