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WWYD?

Soo, long story short: Me and SIL aren't talking at the moment...in fact, Dh isn't talking to her either (it's his sister)...but they don't talk as much as her and I anyway. I won't get into the details, but she blew something waay out of proportion and we had some heated texts and haven't talked since.

Anyway, one of her bff's is getting married in June and I know we are invited to the wedding (we already got a save the date awhile back). I'm just already dreading getting the invitation because we'd only go because of SIL, and if we aren't talking to her then I feel like it would be awkward to go to the wedding. But, on the other hand, we are friends with this girl so I feel like it would be rude not to go.

WWYD? Go and risk the awkwardness...or just send a nice gift and save the hassle? TIA!

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Re: WWYD?

  • I would hold off on making a decision until I got the invite. Why stress about it even longer? Maybe you won't get an invite. Maybe SIL will come to her senses and you guys will make up. Maybe when the time comes, you'll decide that there is something else you really want to spend the time/money on doing. Or maybe you'll really want to go to the wedding. You have plenty of time to decide when you get the ivite. Don't stress about it now! =)
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  • imagemrs.moosie:
    I would hold off on making a decision until I got the invite. Why stress about it even longer? Maybe you won't get an invite. Maybe SIL will come to her senses and you guys will make up. Maybe when the time comes, you'll decide that there is something else you really want to spend the time/money on doing. Or maybe you'll really want to go to the wedding. You have plenty of time to decide when you get the ivite. Don't stress about it now! =)

    Thanks!! I think it's been in my head because we've gotten 2 other wedding invites in the last week, so I know there's is coming in the next month or so. I'm just going to let it be, whatever happens happens.

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  • imagemrs.moosie:
    I would hold off on making a decision until I got the invite. Why stress about it even longer? Maybe you won't get an invite. Maybe SIL will come to her senses and you guys will make up. Maybe when the time comes, you'll decide that there is something else you really want to spend the time/money on doing. Or maybe you'll really want to go to the wedding. You have plenty of time to decide when you get the ivite. Don't stress about it now! =)

    Ditto 1000 percent.

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