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Anal Sex

Have you tried it?  What did you think?
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Re: Anal Sex

  • Sure. I like it. I don't O from it, and we don't do it often, but every now and then it's enjoyable. Use lots of lube and go very, very slow. When I was first trying anal I would actually use the girl on top position and tell my guy to just lay there, relax and not move. That way I controlled every movement and the pace. The first few times it took a lot to and awhile to penetrate completely, but it got easier. I actually think it feels better once fully penetrated than partially. Once you and your partner get used to it you'll be able to move around and pick up the pace. It's not nearly as horrific or gross as people make it out to be. Just relax and see how it goes! GL!
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  • I agree with PP its not as horrific or gross as people think.  Just make sure you have a BM, a shower, and lots of lube before you try it.  I have DH enter in the doggy style position and once it feels comfortable we move around.  It took me a long time to want to try it, but when I did it wasn't so bad and I normally don't O either unless I'm rubbing, but the other night I did and it was A BIGGER adrenaline rush than normal.
  • But what do your H's say?  How do they describe it compared to the vagina?  What if they begin to favor the back to the front?

     

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    But what do your H's say?  How do they describe it compared to the vagina?  What if they begin to favor the back to the front?

     

    MH said he thought it would stay tighter then the vagina, but obviously when you relax it gets bigger too... He said he wouldn't favor it bc of the "work" involved to get comfortable. 

  • We've tried it, I hate it.  I hurts even with a lot of lube.  H loves it though.
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  • Oh. DH likes it, but he never requests it-he always leaves that up to me. I think he says it's tighter, but doesn't necessarily prefer it over vaginal.

    Thanks to our wonderful RE our family is complete!
    DS #1 10.12.12
    DS #2 10.24.14

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  • We have anal sex 3-4 times per month, and honestly? I like it. Hubs makes sure that I'm really into foreplay, and pretty close to orgasm before he tries it, though, and it feels super good. We use a really slippery lube, called Pink, and that makes it easy to insert. I've found that if I'm not close to orgasm, though, and hubs tries to go in, it hurts. And the rest doesn't feel good, either. I just make sure to rub my clit while he's thrusting, and it really gives me some of the strongest orgasms I've had.

    I prefer to be in missionary position when we do it, too because it allows him access to my ***, and he also bangs me with his fingers at the same time. This is almost sensory overload for me, but it feels sooooo good. LOVE it! Sorry if that is TMI, but this is a sex-topic board. Sorry if I've offended anyone. Big Smile

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    We have anal sex 3-4 times per month, and honestly? I like it. Hubs makes sure that I'm really into foreplay, and pretty close to orgasm before he tries it, though, and it feels super good. We use a really slippery lube, called Pink, and that makes it easy to insert. I've found that if I'm not close to orgasm, though, and hubs tries to go in, it hurts. And the rest doesn't feel good, either. I just make sure to rub my clit while he's thrusting, and it really gives me some of the strongest orgasms I've had.

    I prefer to be in missionary position when we do it, too because it allows him access to my ***, and he also bangs me with his fingers at the same time. This is almost sensory overload for me, but it feels sooooo good. LOVE it! Sorry if that is TMI, but this is a sex-topic board. Sorry if I've offended anyone. Big Smile

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    Thanks to our wonderful RE our family is complete!
    DS #1 10.12.12
    DS #2 10.24.14

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  • I have tried it and I know it feels good but I get a little nervous on how good it feels. Doing my research now on the matter. DH loves it but does not want to say but he was that one that did it and gagged me with his hand. (I am with you Lovey, may be that is TMI!)

    Enjoy and remember to pay attention to the other two areas for an explosive O!

  • There was only one person I kind of enjoyed it with. I did have a little O each time. It was my second husband. I would lay on my side.

    BUT...he was not really, um, big. He wasn't up to my standards anyway. my fiance, now, is WAAAY too big for me to even think of trying it. BUT.....we have been tossing around the idea of using anal toys... 

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