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Intercourse vs. oral...maybe TMI
Ok this may be long. I have never had an orgasm from intercourse. Oral I get can in less than 30 seconds, amazing mind blowing wonderful. And DH loves oral too. But with intercourse...nothing. He can orgasm through intercourse, but he says he doesn't like orgasming inside of me as much as oral. He says he doesn't feel the "release" as much. So we really never have sex. I guess my question is, what do I do? I have tried to initiate, tried to seduce him, but I'm not really that into it either. So I need advice on what to do, does anyone else's DH feel this way, how can I have an orgasm through intercourse, how to get DH to enjoy it more? Oh let me add we want to start trying to conceive, so I would like us to enjoy sex more before that happens.
Re: Intercourse vs. oral...maybe TMI
Buy a karma sutra book and a few bottles of wine. You'll find a position or two that work for you and it's a fun journey to try. Let you hubby know your mission, I'm sure he'll be on board. For me, I can get it done while on top
Wait, what? Where is your clit? There's no way a peen can hit mine during intercourse.
I'm wondering if you want intercourse b/c you enjoy it, or b/c it's what you think people SHOULD do? If you can take it or leave it, but you both enjoy oral, then that still counts as sex! Don't feel bad if you both enjoy yourselves and are happy!
But if you would LIKE more intercourse, a few suggestions...
1) Kegals. If you do kegal excercises, you can "squeeze" your H while is having an orgasm, and he might feel it better.
2) Have you thought about using a vibrator? Or having your h stroke your clitoris while you are having sex? You might introduce it while not having intercourse, just to mix things up. then use it during sex.
my suggestions are to try different positions and clit stimulation!!! I have a difficult time getting to an orgasm 90% of the time but my FI has figured out how to drive me crazy! tmi but my FI will pin my legs down and rub my clit with a STRONG little vibe while hes stroking away.