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No lifting LJ for ten days?! :(

That has to be the worst news EVER!  Okay, that's a bit dramatic, but it still really really stinks.

Most of you (on FB) know I had my appendix taken out via emergency surgery late Sunday night.  It suuuucks.  But the last day that I've been home and unable to pick up Lucas has been so hard on me.  It breaks my heart :(

Question for those who have had an appendectomy, anyone find relief with a heating pad?  Post-surgery I had a cold pack on my stomach but I'm guessing that was for swelling (??).  I'm wondering if heat would offer any relief.

Also, how do you NOT over do it?  I'm notorious for being unable to sit still.  I can't just 'relax'.  It's not in my vocabulary.  What am I supposed to do with myself??  I'm already going crazy...

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Re: No lifting LJ for ten days?! :(

  • Oh no! Hope you feel better soon & these next 10 days go quickly for you! I bet it's hard not to be able to pickup Lucas, can you sit next to him on the floor or couch & play, maybe read him a book.

    As far as keeping busy, here are some other ideas:

    -organize/edit photos
    -scrapbook
    -create photobook or photo calendar
    -knit, sew or cross stitch
    -shop online
    -nest
    -watch movies
    -catch up on missed tv episodes
    -organize paperwork/files, bills
    -research vacations
    -read a book/magazine
    -catch up on blogs
    -play games

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  • Oh thanks Ashley!  This is a PERFECT time to start tackling my cross stitch project.  Great idea!

    I can't get down on the floor, but Dad can put him in my lap when we read or have a bottle so that helps.  It just stinks not being able to play the way I usually do.

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  • are you allowed to 'walk' I kind of remember them wanting me to do some moderate walking, to keep the blood flowing good!! And it's supposed to be decent out, so maybe talke a leasurly walk. :)
  • I'm encouraged to 'get up and move around' but no walking or other form of extended movement.  I'm guessing I'll get the thumbs up for that on my appointment in 9 days (hopefully).

    I wonder if it's okay to drive a car (assuming I'm not flying high on pain pills)?

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  • I think that holds true. But it has to be 48hrs after being put under. I THINK

  • I'm sorry about your appendectomy!  I would not put heat on it.  Heat causes blood vessels to dialiate, and with a fresh surgical site, I don't think promoting blood to go to that area being a good thing.  Perhaps I'm wrong, I just think with it being such a fresh surgery I would wait.   Can you call your doc and ask?
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  • i've been meaning to text you. hope everything is okay!!

    hang in there!

  • Sorry again to hear about your surgery!  I had mine out on emergency basis in 2009.  The first few days were rough, but I went to Vegas 5 days after surgery.  I found ice to work the best.  And lots of drugs :) 

    It was sad not lifting Maya, but she was a little older and somewhat understood that Mommy had an "owie".  I wish you a super fast recovery!

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  • I'm sorry Mj! I have no ideas-other than lots of movies and books, and nesting! If you need anything let me know. Just someone to bring you dinner, chat with, etc. Let me know! Enjoy it now, if you can! You deserve some rest and relaxation!
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  • You poor thing! I'm sorry to hear about your surgery. No advice on taking it easy but just try your best,you don't want to overdue it and then not be able to lift him for even longer. Thoughts to you and hoping these next days go fast for you!
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  • No heat and no driving until the doc clears you. Sorry :( I'm sorry you had to have surgery! Do you have netflix? Any books that you've been meaning to read?
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