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Do you ever fake it?
The oral post got me thinking...do you ladies ever fake an orgasm? Jason and I have really good sexual chemistry so I'd say 99% of the time he gives me an orgasm whether it is during foreplay or actual sex; however, two nights ago he decided to surprise me with a little 'me' time right before I went to bed. I wasn't in the mood at all, I was super tired and cranky, but he seemed eager so who am I to stop him? lol However, a little bit into it, I knew I wasn't going to orgasm and really just wanted to go to bed, but I didn't want to hurt his feelings...so I faked it. I don't think I've faked it since we first started dating and that was almost 7 years ago, but alas, I got to go to bed and he seemed proud of himself lol.
So do you ladies ever fake it?
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Re: Do you ever fake it?
Makes total sense. He'll get so close sometimes and I'll even say, "just like that, don't stop" then he goes and does something different and messes it all up lol.
That is exactly what I am talking about!
i wont lie....not to him....he's been open with me doing things "my way" meaning so that i can finish.....he;'s the first
if im just not feeling it i'll tell him that while it feels good its just not in the cards and he can go ahead and finish....it works for us
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I had a talk with him the other night about this...
I said that I have only faked it a couple times ever... and that sometimes, even without finishing, I still have fun. Sometimes, I'm just too tired or stressed or distracted. I'll tell him it's not gonna happen and thank him for his effort. (sidenote: we always thank each other afterward) It usually takes me longer anyway, so he tries to put in more time with me during foreplay.
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