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WWYD - re: Christmas gift that never showed up?

What would you do?

I was given a gift subscription to a magazine for a Christmas gift from my in laws.  I haven't gotten a magazine yet so I called the magazine company to check on what was going on.  They don't have record of it under my name OR my in-laws. 

So - should I let my ILs know?  The only thing I got from them about the subscription was a little rectangular card dealie saying that I was getting a 1 year subscription from the magazine (from the magazine itself - not something they made up) that they filled in.

Or should I just let it go?  

Normally I would just let it go because nobody is obligated to give you a gift and it would be rude to ask about it but in this case, I would hate for them to have paid for something and have the magazine goof it up.   I don't have any ground to stand on with the magazine company so it isn't like I can fight for it myself - know what I mean?

Re: WWYD - re: Christmas gift that never showed up?

  • I would probably mention it to the ILs.  They should have record of payment for the subscription.
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  • I would mention it.  It would be a bummer for their money to go to waste. 
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  • I'm not sure where they ordered it from but this is a situation that happened to me a few years ago.  My mom got me a subscription to 3 magazines for Xmas.  They were through one of those places that let you select multiple magazine subscriptions all in one place.  I got my 2 magazines every week, but I never recieved the third.  My mom called and apparently the company wasn't able to obtain the third magazine and they just weren't going to tell us that.  They already took my mom's money and it took her about 4 phone calls to finally get someone to reimburse her.
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  • I ended up emailing them apologizing profusely for walking the "rude" line but letting them know that I hadn't gotten a magazine yet and there wasn't a record of it with the company and letting them do with the information what they will.  I felt bad doing it - it just feels so very rude to me to inquire about a gift but in this case, I know that money is tight for them and they sure as heck would want to know if they spent money on something and nothing was going out in return. 

    I hate it when doing the right thing and doing the wrong thing are so very similar sometimes!

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