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if you love being on top...

I'm hoping to get some advice and tips for how to make the best of being on top. I've really only ever been able to O when DH is on top, but now that I'm pregnant its getting uncomfortable and I need to be on top now. I just don't have any experience having an O when I'm on top...it doesn't feel as good and I'm thinking I'm just in the wrong position. Thoughts?

Re: if you love being on top...

  • Were you the woman who was having an issue getting her H to wear condoms a while back?
  • imagepastrypuff9000:
    Have him sit up.

     Sit up against the headboard? Do I stay up straddling him, or try to lie down on him?

  • Both of you sit up.  My H doesn't use the headboard to lean on, but that would work too.  We also use chairs or the couch.  
  • Hola... I love being on top... I can't O unless I have stimulation, like alot of constant stimulation, so H and I use a vibrator while having sex. Pretty awesome, especially during the backwards cowgirl. Sorry if this is TMI.

  • imageBelle101781:

    Hola... I love being on top... I can't O unless I have stimulation, like alot of constant stimulation, so H and I use a vibrator while having sex. Pretty awesome, especially during the backwards cowgirl. Sorry if this is TMI.

    this exactly! this is our new thing and I love it!

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  • imagepastrypuff9000:
    Both of you sit up.  My H doesn't use the headboard to lean on, but that would work too.  We also use chairs or the couch.  

    Yes Everything about this is a yes.

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  • imageBelle101781:

    Hola... I love being on top... I can't O unless I have stimulation, like alot of constant stimulation, so H and I use a vibrator while having sex. Pretty awesome, especially during the backwards cowgirl. Sorry if this is TMI.

    Holy hotness.. I need to try this 

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  • I have the best O's when I'm on top like can't move because it feels so good amazing, and its usually when he is kind of sitting up he usually puts some pillows behind him so he's not leaning up against the wall and he loves it, backwards cowgirl has been awesome for H it's his new favorite lol
    ?I always like to look on the optimistic side of life, but I am realistic enough to know that life is a complex matter.? ~Walt Disney
  • I love it! Ever looked for positions online? Usually it depends on the size of your man to find a position that really works for you- Have fun experimenting!
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  • I love being on top. especially while i was pregnant ( I was extra horny tho). The stimulation makes me O and have ur H lift his hips every now and then. The extra lift hits different spots and then u might O, at least I do.
  • you might find it hard to have your husband sit up when u get bigger, the belly gets in the way. maybe backwards cowgirl? 
  • Also whether he's sitting up or not, have a pillow under his butt/hips as it gives a better angle
  • imageBelle101781:

    Hola... I love being on top... I can't O unless I have stimulation, like alot of constant stimulation, so H and I use a vibrator while having sex. Pretty awesome, especially during the backwards cowgirl. Sorry if this is TMI.

     

    THIS is what my FI and I currently do --fun with a variable speed egg (with the separate controller) he puts it on high and i just about cant move it feels sooo good then he backs it off....(i think he just likes watching my reactions)

  • You just made me text my husband...lol.

    Tonight will be a good night Idea

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