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Butt Sex

My fiance is very interested and I am still unsure.  Advice? Suggestions? Is it worth it?

Re: Butt Sex

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  • Ok i have tried this.... AND IT HURTS for the first few minutes.... It can be enjoyable sometimes as long as thats what your in the mood for... A word of advice- try letting him use a finger or two first so you can get the feel of it..
  • this topic is apparently the only thing ever asked about on this board. this is approximately the 4th thread asking about it.

     

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  • This topic, and ICU's.
  • My FI is also really interested. We tried it once about 3 years ago. I didn't really like it. It wasn't HORRIBLE pain but it was def uncomfortable and it kind of had a burning sensation. We were pretty generous with the lube, but maybe we needed more. Personally, I don't want to do it again. Although I know it takes a few times before you get comfortable, I just wasn't into it and didn't have any desire to try again.
  • a lotta lube. Liquor doesn't hurt either.
  • The key is lube, lube, lube.  And you have to relax your, um, muscles back there so it doesn't hurt as much.  Drinking before can def help!
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  • Lots of lube and the right situation. I have extremely long periods, so when i do have my period, anal is the answer i have to satify my hubby.

    We take everything very slowly. I take control of the situation and easy myself into it. As others have suggested, getting hubby to use some fingers back there is a good idea. Also mid intercourse is a good time as you are usually fairly relaxed and can easily be slipped into if in the doggie position and he can use the fingers in the "backwhole" while riding you from behind doggie style, then when your ready just give him a predeterminded sign to go ahead with it, slowly... VERY SLOWLY!

    Hope it helps!

  • I haven't done it in years, since my FH is much larger than my previous partners and when we tried it it just brought tears to my eyes so I said "no way". I think it is much more enjoyable with a smaller penis than a larger one, but then again, the opposite it true with sex the other way!! (at least for me) :)
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    Ok i have tried this.... AND IT HURTS for the first few minutes.... It can be enjoyable sometimes as long as thats what your in the mood for... A word of advice- try letting him use a finger or two first so you can get the feel of it..

    this.  just relax .. but dont try it if your not ready

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  • We've tried it a few times and I really, really hate it.  He wants to try it again and I'm thinking of maybe making him an offer: we can do it again but only as part of a 3-some with another dude.  (Which is kind of a fantasy of mine that he's not really into.)  Does that seem fair or do you think it's manipulating him?
  • IMO, this needs its own thread. If you don't have kids and he's ok with it, go for it. Be prepared for him to counter with wanting a FFM 3some though.

  •   If think it's going to hurt or want it to hurt in order to prove a point, it will hurt.

      If done with caution, care and full preparation. At worst if will feel odd,strange or weird. It won't last very long as DH lasts at most 3-4 strokes, 2 or 3 if I squeeze him. 

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     If you don't have kids and he's ok with it, go for it. Be prepared for him to counter with wanting a FFM 3some though.

    LMAO

    WTH?

    So, parents shouldn't have anal and it's a precursor to swinging?

    I understand it can also lead to gingivitis and should never be attempted by CPAs with serious boyfriends

     

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     If you don't have kids and he's ok with it, go for it. Be prepared for him to counter with wanting a FFM 3some though.

    LMAO

    WTH?

    So, parents shouldn't have anal and it's a precursor to swinging?

    I understand it can also lead to gingivitis and should never be attempted by CPAs with serious boyfriends

     

    Pretty sure this was originally intended as a reply to a PP who mentioned that because anal hurt, she was going to make a deal with her boyfriend re: trading anal for a threesome.  Doubt it was meant for the OP. 

  • lube and booty eaze!! I sell these things with my pure romance business...also we have anal toys...all of these are great begging to anal! but most of all you have to want to do it!!! check out my website and email me ...I can try and see if we can make you a deal!! :) briannacraft.pureromance.com 
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  • The lube is very important, you should use a gel lube instead of a liquid (we always keep each in the house) and you shouldn't just jump right into it, your sex has to lead into it otherwise it is uncomfortable. But it is an amazing orgasm. 
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