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10 reasons NOT to get married?

Incase you're bored... 

http://daily.likeme.net/2011/03/02/the-top-10-reasons-not-to-get-married/

Wow. Bitter much? While I have to agree that a lot of the 5 points made can be hurdles in marriage the author clearly has some serious issues and pent up resentment. It gave me a good laugh though.

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Re: 10 reasons NOT to get married?

  • I agree, totally bitter. If you marry the right person, there are a million reasons to get married. While I don't think you have to be married to have a happy/complete life, I also would never say you shouldn't because of any of those reasons. 

    Well, maybe IL's - but compared to what I've read on TN, I have it super easy with mine! They never pry, if anything I wonder why they don't care more about what's going on with their son and me.   

    Love 9.3.03 Marriage 12.1.07 Baby Carriage 8.3.11
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    I agree, totally bitter. If you marry the right person, there are a million reasons to get married. While I don't think you have to be married to have a happy/complete life, I also would never say you shouldn't because of any of those reasons. 

    Well, maybe IL's - but compared to what I've read on TN, I have it super easy with mine! They never pry, if anything I wonder why they don't care more about what's going on with their son and me.   

    Haha. Yeah, I've come to realize that mine aren't so bad either. Plus, a lot of the stuff mentioned can be a hurdle in any relationship once the "honeymoon" phase is over.

    Marriage was always a take it or leave it thing for me personally. I don't think I would have NEEDED it to be happy with DH, but a lot of people do. To be so out right against it however just seems like a lot of angry wasted energy. I'd bet there is an ugly marriage in her past.

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  • I actually kind of agree with #10 that marriage is kind of an outdated institution.   

    I read that one and thought of the article I read this morning about Mike Huckabee shaming Natalie Portman for having kids out of wedlock.

    http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/41896661/ns/today-entertainment/

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    I actually kind of agree with #10 that marriage is kind of an outdated institution.   

    I read that one and thought of the article I read this morning about Mike Huckabee shaming Natalie Portman for having kids out of wedlock.

    http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/41896661/ns/today-entertainment/

    Richard Roeper had a funny retort to that on Twitter, saying basically, oh, so she should either have had an abortion or be a virgin at 29?
  • imageLucille Bluth:

    I actually kind of agree with #10 that marriage is kind of an outdated institution.   

    I read that one and thought of the article I read this morning about Mike Huckabee shaming Natalie Portman for having kids out of wedlock.

    http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/41896661/ns/today-entertainment/

    ITA. That's why I was the girl that didn't feel compelled to get married one way or another. This little bit is the prize gem from that article "

    "Most single moms are very poor, uneducated, can't get a job, and if it weren't for government assistance, their kids would be starving to death and never have health care," he said. "And that's the story that we're not seeing."

    WTF?! Awesome.

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