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Since you've been married, have you had a sex dream about another man?[Poll]

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  • What's a "sex dream?"  ?_?

    *le sigh* I miss my drive...

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  • I haven't had sex in a week so apparently my subconscious is horny. I'm guessing it was with another man, because the state of my husband's nether regions is not pretty right now. In the dream, I even said "I'm a married woman." and then he said something I won't repeat online.
  • imageMBMcC421:

    What's a "sex dream?"  ?_?

    *le sigh* I miss my drive...

    I never have sex dreams about Robin. Althought, I rarely remember my dreams. I've been on a dreaming kick for about 3 weeks now.

  • I didnt have very vivid ones until I was pregnant. Sometimes they are just normal dreams other times they make me blush...
  • I have sex dreams about other men a lot. Does that make me a bad wife? I hope not...

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  • imagemichelle142:

    I have sex dreams about other men a lot. Does that make me a bad wife? I hope not...

    Oh honey, I'm with you.  Maybe not "a lot", but my ex-boyfriend has headlined in a few of them.  Yikes Embarrassed  But, I've had dreams featuring my husband too, so hopefully that evens out......

    I always have had vivid dreams, weird dreams, etc.  I remember my dreams at least 50% of the time.

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  • Here's my deep, dark confession of the day...

    Whenever I have a sex dream, it's usually with a woman.
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    Oh honey, I'm with you.  Maybe not "a lot", but my ex-boyfriend has headlined in a few of them.  Yikes Embarrassed  But, I've had dreams featuring my husband too, so hopefully that evens out......

    I always have had vivid dreams, weird dreams, etc.  I remember my dreams at least 50% of the time.

    This is me...

    I have very vivid dreams. I remember a lot of details, names, places, etc.



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  • imageamelianguy:
    Here's my deep, dark confession of the day...

    Whenever I have a sex dream, it's usually with a woman.

    Amelia, me too! Lol. Well, I don't know if I would say it's "usually" with a woman...but I've definitely had a few of those!

    I've had some dreams about other guys, but it's always someone random, never anyone I know.

  • Yeah, I've had the woman thing too....Don't worry, Ames, you are not alone!
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  • Haha, good to know I'm not alone!

    I actually read once in a dream translation book that if you have dreams of a sexual nature about a woman, it usually just means that it's someone that you admire and want to have a good relationship with. It doesn't mean you're a lesbian. So the book says.
  • imageamelianguy:
    Here's my deep, dark confession of the day...

    Whenever I have a sex dream, it's usually with a woman.

    Couple fun?

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  • imageMBMcC421:

    imageamelianguy:
    Here's my deep, dark confession of the day...

    Whenever I have a sex dream, it's usually with a woman.

    Couple fun?

    Nah. I've been down that road before. It usually just turns into a catfight. Meow.
  • imageamelianguy:
    imageMBMcC421:

    imageamelianguy:
    Here's my deep, dark confession of the day...

    Whenever I have a sex dream, it's usually with a woman.

    Couple fun?

    Nah. I've been down that road before. It usually just turns into a catfight. Meow.

    Hiss.  Scratch.

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  • imageamelianguy:
    imageMBMcC421:

    imageamelianguy:
    Here's my deep, dark confession of the day...

    Whenever I have a sex dream, it's usually with a woman.

    Couple fun?

    Nah. I've been down that road before. It usually just turns into a catfight. Meow.

    And, how long does this take? To turn into a catfight, I mean.

    Not being sarcastic, honestly curious. 

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  • imageSocialWorker2B:
    imageamelianguy:
    imageMBMcC421:

    imageamelianguy:
    Here's my deep, dark confession of the day...

    Whenever I have a sex dream, it's usually with a woman.

    Couple fun?

    Nah. I've been down that road before. It usually just turns into a catfight. Meow.

    And, how long does this take? To turn into a catfight, I mean.

    Not being sarcastic, honestly curious. 

    I suppose it depends on the people involved. For me, it was when the other girl's boyfriend became more interested in having sex with me than he was in having sex with her. Jealousy ensued. Catfights soon followed.
  • imageamelianguy:
    imageSocialWorker2B:
    imageamelianguy:
    imageMBMcC421:

    imageamelianguy:
    Here's my deep, dark confession of the day...

    Whenever I have a sex dream, it's usually with a woman.

    Couple fun?

    Nah. I've been down that road before. It usually just turns into a catfight. Meow.

    And, how long does this take? To turn into a catfight, I mean.

    Not being sarcastic, honestly curious. 

    I suppose it depends on the people involved. For me, it was when the other girl's boyfriend became more interested in having sex with me than he was in having sex with her. Jealousy ensued. Catfights soon followed.

    Yeah, that's a real problem. I recently dealt with a girl who decided she wasn't into full swap so I was just, like, fine - soft swap it is. No problem. But, yeah, if I had pushed the issue than obviously it would've been a problem.

    In your case, it sounds as if it was that girl's boyfriend's fault. You have to respect and desire your primary partner. He's an idiot. LOL ;-)

    I always thought that I would be WICKED jealous but I guess I'm only jealous when it turns secretive. Which could be a problem in any marriage, couple fun or no. 

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  • imageSocialWorker2B:
    imageamelianguy:
    imageSocialWorker2B:
    imageamelianguy:
    imageMBMcC421:

    imageamelianguy:
    Here's my deep, dark confession of the day...

    Whenever I have a sex dream, it's usually with a woman.

    Couple fun?

    Nah. I've been down that road before. It usually just turns into a catfight. Meow.

    And, how long does this take? To turn into a catfight, I mean.

    Not being sarcastic, honestly curious. 

    I suppose it depends on the people involved. For me, it was when the other girl's boyfriend became more interested in having sex with me than he was in having sex with her. Jealousy ensued. Catfights soon followed.

    Yeah, that's a real problem. I recently dealt with a girl who decided she wasn't into full swap so I was just, like, fine - soft swap it is. No problem. But, yeah, if I had pushed the issue than obviously it would've been a problem.

    In your case, it sounds as if it was that girl's boyfriend's fault. You have to respect and desire your primary partner. He's an idiot. LOL ;-)

    I always thought that I would be WICKED jealous but I guess I'm only jealous when it turns secretive. Which could be a problem in any marriage, couple fun or no. 

    Wait... I thought you just said you weren't going to openly admit this on a public forum?

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  • imageMBMcC421:
    imageSocialWorker2B:
    imageamelianguy:
    imageSocialWorker2B:
    imageamelianguy:
    imageMBMcC421:

    imageamelianguy:
    Here's my deep, dark confession of the day...

    Whenever I have a sex dream, it's usually with a woman.

    Couple fun?

    Nah. I've been down that road before. It usually just turns into a catfight. Meow.

    And, how long does this take? To turn into a catfight, I mean.

    Not being sarcastic, honestly curious. 

    I suppose it depends on the people involved. For me, it was when the other girl's boyfriend became more interested in having sex with me than he was in having sex with her. Jealousy ensued. Catfights soon followed.

    Yeah, that's a real problem. I recently dealt with a girl who decided she wasn't into full swap so I was just, like, fine - soft swap it is. No problem. But, yeah, if I had pushed the issue than obviously it would've been a problem.

    In your case, it sounds as if it was that girl's boyfriend's fault. You have to respect and desire your primary partner. He's an idiot. LOL ;-)

    I always thought that I would be WICKED jealous but I guess I'm only jealous when it turns secretive. Which could be a problem in any marriage, couple fun or no. 

    Wait... I thought you just said you weren't going to openly admit this on a public forum?

    My statements couldn't be proven definitively.

    Full swap - soft swap = those could have alternative meanings.

    And the jealously comment means nothing.

    HA. 

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  • imageSocialWorker2B:

    My statements couldn't be proven definitively.

    Full swap - soft swap = those could have alternative meanings.

    And the jealously comment means nothing.

    HA. 

    You're such an AW-tastic moron. -_-

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  • imageMBMcC421:

    imageSocialWorker2B:

    My statements couldn't be proven definitively.

    Full swap - soft swap = those could have alternative meanings.

    And the jealously comment means nothing.

    HA. 

    You're such an AW-tastic moron. -_-

    I love you too. 

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  • imageSocialWorker2B:
    imageamelianguy:
    imageSocialWorker2B:
    imageamelianguy:
    imageMBMcC421:

    imageamelianguy:
    Here's my deep, dark confession of the day...

    Whenever I have a sex dream, it's usually with a woman.

    Couple fun?

    Nah. I've been down that road before. It usually just turns into a catfight. Meow.

    And, how long does this take? To turn into a catfight, I mean.

    Not being sarcastic, honestly curious. 

    I suppose it depends on the people involved. For me, it was when the other girl's boyfriend became more interested in having sex with me than he was in having sex with her. Jealousy ensued. Catfights soon followed.

    In your case, it sounds as if it was that girl's boyfriend's fault. You have to respect and desire your primary partner. He's an idiot. LOL ;-)

    You're right, he was an idiot. I should've never gotten myself involved in the thing in the first place. Plus, it was a threesome, not a couple swap, so it must've seemed to her like I was the "other woman". It was stupid and I was young and naive and didn't realize the consequences of my actions. It's not something I would ever do again.
  • imageamelianguy:
    imageSocialWorker2B:
    imageamelianguy:
    imageSocialWorker2B:
    imageamelianguy:
    imageMBMcC421:

    imageamelianguy:
    Here's my deep, dark confession of the day...

    Whenever I have a sex dream, it's usually with a woman.

    Couple fun?

    Nah. I've been down that road before. It usually just turns into a catfight. Meow.

    And, how long does this take? To turn into a catfight, I mean.

    Not being sarcastic, honestly curious. 

    I suppose it depends on the people involved. For me, it was when the other girl's boyfriend became more interested in having sex with me than he was in having sex with her. Jealousy ensued. Catfights soon followed.

    In your case, it sounds as if it was that girl's boyfriend's fault. You have to respect and desire your primary partner. He's an idiot. LOL ;-)

    You're right, he was an idiot. I should've never gotten myself involved in the thing in the first place. Plus, it was a threesome, not a couple swap, so it must've seemed to her like I was the "other woman". It was stupid and I was young and naive and didn't realize the consequences of my actions. It's not something I would ever do again.

    Yeah, I imagine that threesomes must have a very different psychological makeup than foursomes. I also don't know whether I would wanna be the girlfriend/wife or the 'other woman' in that scenario.

    It was his responsibility to make sure his partner was happy, comfortable, etc. 

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