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To much lube?
I'm just wondering if anyone else ever has this problem or are DH and I just weird? lol
We use lube, and usually love it. However, sometimes we use a little to much and it's nearly impossible to get him either into (he will slide right off the lip and miss completely) me or to stay in once he's in.
Are we just stupid or does anyone else have this problem?
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Re: To much lube?
If he's missing the entry, he may not be excited enough, if he's not staying in, it could be that you may not have needed the additional glide.
Like all things, start small and work your way to MORE. Its simply trial and error.
Happy boinking!
This made me lawl!
I agree w/the PP though. It happens w/us sometimes. It's better to start w/a little and work your way up. If you've got a bottle w/a pump top dispenser, it can be easier to get more as you go along. But those usually only come w/a huge jug, so not everyone can easily store that right by the bed, especially if you've got kids and can't leave it out.
Glide him in with your hand (not his, and don't let him just stab around trying to find the right place, he'll need direction, especially if it's all slippery). Then have him work his way in SLOWLY (again stabbing and pumping isn't going to work very well right away, it's like threading a needle, you need to go slow to get it started, once it's in you have way more control to do what you want with it...lol sorry it's what I was picturing in my head...apparently I need to get out more,) once he's all the way in THEN start going at it and you shouldn't have as much of a problem.
Have him give you an orgasm manually before you start having sex. You'll be much tighter and he'll stay in better.
And you might find you don't need the lube!
I use tons of lube too regardless of the amount of foreplay! We haven't had problems with him staying in but sometimes the lack friction makes DH feel like nothing is going on down there.