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advice anyone....
This is going to be a long one... I love my DH, he's always been faithful and loving to me. But for about a week now, I have been really distant from him like I don't know how to act with him. I don't feel the way I use to when he would kiss me, hug me or when he wants to cuddle with me. I even find myself pushing him away bc it makes me feel weird.
This one night we were fooling around and than he stopped and says "ok, my turn" in a weird way and it really threw me off... I was like "what?", and he said it again. I was thinking to myself this is weird. He usually doesn't ask for oral sex bc he's not really into that and I've never heard him ask me like that before. I really didn't and still don't know what to think or feel about it. Bc I didn't know how to react to his request, he ended it very quick with a quickie sex and went to the bathroom and came back to bed and says good night babe. No kiss, No cuddle, No NOTHING! I was like okay.... 
It really made me feel used and unloved. I couldn't sleep that night, it made me feel like we had no connection at all, I didn't even know who he was for that moment. All I kept thinking of was when he told me (before we got married) the girls he hooked up with in college he never cuddle with them bc they were no one to him, but I'm different to him. Bc I couldn't sleep, I ended up sleeping in our spare room bc I didn't feel right laying next to him. The next morning he act like nothing happen.
Should I be worry? Am I overreacting or over thinking this? I don't know how to approach him about this and tell him how it made me feel.
Re: advice anyone....
Why didn't you just say something to him then? Instead you got all passive aggressive, kept it inside and slept in another room? The fix here is to TALK to him. If you married the guy you should be able to tell him anything, even if you are overreacting.
Good for you! Just keep doing it. I tend to take things personally and talking to my H as soon as it happens has helped me quit doing this.