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Tell me about your experience with Depo..
Hey ladies, I am looking to prevent pregnancy for about another 6-12 months. I can never remember a pill, the ring gives me UTIs, and I don't need to prevent for that long annnnd I'm starting to get sick of condoms.
I feel like this leaves me with depo, any thoughts or suggestions? What was your experience?
Re: Tell me about your experience with Depo..
Depo sucked for me. Sure, I had no period but I also lost my sex drive and gained weight. Even after I went off it, my cycles were totally messed up for over a year.
I wouldn't recommend it for trying to prevent for such a short period of time.
I was on depo for about 3 years, I started taking it when I turned 18. It was great for the first 2 shots (6 months) but after that I started getting really bad side effects. Headaches,Leg cramps,Spotting for 2 months , Anxiety, I gained about 15lbs in a month (which was a lot for a 5`2 stick) I had zero interest for sex I didn't even like my FH to touch me, it made my skin crawl. It dragged me down. I went from a happy care free person to punching a hole in the wall because he wouldn't let me mash the potatoes, not my proudest moment
So I won't recommend it but I know that people have different reactions to certiain medications. I always thought I wouldn't rememeber the pill either but after that experience and not really like any of the other options, the ring and patch would make me nervous and condoms give me bad UTIs, I chose the pill.
Hmm
sounds like depo might not be the way to go. I was hoping by only taking 1-2 shots it would be no big deal, but I am seriously afraid of the weight gain and I've also read it can give you facial hair which was like my most serious concern (lol)
I'm really torn on what to do because without any hormones I have a perfect 28 day cycle, no break outs, no sore boobs, but condoms pretty much suck and I do worry about natural family planning because it is so involved.
I will absolutely go back to Depo when I'm done having kids, but wouldn't even think about risking it now. When you're done with the shot, it can take YEARS for your cycles to come back. I liked it for the year I was on it.
FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
Have you ever considered a diaphram and spermicide? I used it for many years with great success, couldn't take the pill, turned me into an "ax murderer" I guess kinda like the mashed potatoes incident the other poster had lol... you have to be careful with your positions, but it could be an alternative for you...