October 2010 Weddings
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Massage
I have a totally amazing husband! He surprised me with a couples massage on Saturday and it was lovely 
) I have a question to ask you...do you mind if you have a male masseuse? Do you have a preference?[Poll]
) I have a question to ask you...do you mind if you have a male masseuse? Do you have a preference?[Poll] 
Re: Massage
I put "female" although I'm probably "no preference" - I had my first male masseuse a few weeks ago. He just wasn't as subtle about moving from one area to another - it was like there was a checklist in his head
__ Left shoulder (check)
__ Left upper back (check)
__ Right shoulder (check)
__ Right shoulder
So instead of moving gradually from one body part to another it was a bit choppy, and less relaxing. I'm not sure if that's because he was a guy, because certainly not all female masseurs are equal either...
As long as the massage is good, I don't care.
When I was in Jordan, I was staying at a fancy pants resort, so I booked a massage. They asked me at least 3 times when I booked if I was ok with having a male massage therapist, because he was the only one available, and then reminded me again when I checked in. I just wanted to say, "yeah, it's cool- I'm a heathen."
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I have only had one professional massage (a hot stone one, it was amazing!) and I had a female masseuse, so I did not vote.
But, I don't think I would mind if I had a male, as long as the massage was good, and he wasn't making inappropriate comments (he can only think those!! LOL)
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